Met a mom last week with 3 kids under 3
Find a Conversation
| Sat, 03-25-2006 - 9:59am |
A 2 year old and 17 month old twins. First she accomplished *that* through two surrogates! Wonderful what modern medicine can do.
Anyway, she doesnt work full time, she consults to several companies so is out of the home one full day then a few hours a day on other days. Sometimes for work, sometimes to go to the gym, etc.
She has a full time live in nanny, and two part time nannies. Essentially they always have someone with them and the kids. She feels she needs two to properly care for her three.
I immediately thought of all the comments her lifestyle would elicit from this board.
The day she and I met she had just come from a 2 hour session at the gym, and was then heading off to go do some shopping.
BTW, she's a complete rock star in industry, having 'retired' a year ago after a 30 year career that took her right up to the top of corporate America so she's definetly *earned* her right to do whatever the heck she wants.
But anyway, she feels she is a super hands on mom. I was curious what others would think?
MM

Pages
I didn't know the Amish ever allowed themselves to get crazy for a bit. That's good to hear.
It's the idea that the child will *stay* with the wrong crowd after the concerned parent intervenes. Dabbling will happen. But I think a little concern and love from the parent goes a long, long way with the previously neglected child; pulling back may help where the helicopter parent is involved, etc.
<>
So why can't you see the opposite? "I have a checklist of things I value in education that I want imparted to my own children, and they cannot be satisfied through the traditional public schools."
Wow.
<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
You tend to bring up drugs and sex when discussing traditional schools. I think in a post a while ago, I got the impression you also think school socialization necessarily involves bullying.
I went the traditional school route and have never even tried a drug and was a virgin 'til 22. I don't think you can even see how you equate this world's "evils" with school socialization.
<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
Pages