Met a mom last week with 3 kids under 3
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| Sat, 03-25-2006 - 9:59am |
A 2 year old and 17 month old twins. First she accomplished *that* through two surrogates! Wonderful what modern medicine can do.
Anyway, she doesnt work full time, she consults to several companies so is out of the home one full day then a few hours a day on other days. Sometimes for work, sometimes to go to the gym, etc.
She has a full time live in nanny, and two part time nannies. Essentially they always have someone with them and the kids. She feels she needs two to properly care for her three.
I immediately thought of all the comments her lifestyle would elicit from this board.
The day she and I met she had just come from a 2 hour session at the gym, and was then heading off to go do some shopping.
BTW, she's a complete rock star in industry, having 'retired' a year ago after a 30 year career that took her right up to the top of corporate America so she's definetly *earned* her right to do whatever the heck she wants.
But anyway, she feels she is a super hands on mom. I was curious what others would think?
MM

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I may have to submit on this one. What can the child get through hs'ing that they can't in the public schools? Special ed and the gifted programs in public schools are often available. Certainly, special ed should be at least.
The field trip thing? I definitely imitate that hs'ing ideal, no problem. One-on-one tutelage in the classroom? I don't want/need that, and can imitate it through homework (voluminous homework assignments in our district in particular). And never before have so many educational materials used in the classroom been available to us public school parents if we are so inclined.
OK, that's one child. What about the rest?
And my understanding is that the gifted child is generally accelerated in grade level and takes college classes or full-out registers for college. Removing the gifted child from school is not helping him when the majority of HS'ing parents have only a high school degree and do not have their teacher's license.
I didn't say that peer pressure wasn't an issue in highschool. With maturity many kids become better equipped at dealing with it. My dd has lots of friends. Many do attend public school.
If a child never has to deal with peer pressure(and I am not saying homeschoolers don't) it doesn't mean they will automatically become crippled when faced with it. My dd has dealt with kids being mean to other kids and has had no problems speaking up. I think that sometimes kids in a school setting get desensitized to that behavior which isn't necessarily a good thing either. They learn to put up and shut up.
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