Parents and school involvement
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| Thu, 08-23-2007 - 8:49am |
My question stems from a personal experience. My middle child is starting kindergarten next week. I've become fairly close with one of my dd's friend's moms- this is her first child entering the school system. She WOH, I do not, plus I have experience with the school, so she's been calling me with questions and comments.
It started to go bad when she called to complain that the kindy orientation is during the day- when she is working. Then it led to complaints about the parents' read aloud program (when the kids are in library) and other opportunities for volunteerism in the school. I get that these things aren't convenient for her, but I'm getting annoyed with the complaining. How can the kids have an orientation at night when they go to school during the day? None of these events are mandatory for parents or kids. And plenty of activities are scheduled for evenings: Back to school night, the PTA picnic, etc.
She thinks because she can't participate, no one should be able to, apparently. Plenty of WOHP do show up for these things. I think she's being unrealistic if she thought she could put a couple of kids through school without ever taking a vacation day. Am I wrong? Am I missing something here?

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With seeing so many marriages fall apart over the years, I have learned that you need to work at being married. You need to be involved in all aspects of your spouses life, even if you don't understand them-lol!
Why is me telling him five is late enough a problem?
Shari mother to
<<i don't consider sah a universal arrangement for all who can afford it.>>
So then why are you asking me?
<<i don't think all parents are cut out to be ah with their kids which traditionally,sahps spend more time doing..>>
Funny, that doesn't even come to mind when I think of sah.
PumpkinAngel
Still not answering my question?
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She said she doesn't know the exact reason,
PumpkinAngel
I disagree you don't need to be completely involved in every aspect of your spouses life.
Shari mother to
I believe this is another example of different experiences doesn't make something wrong or incorrect.
PumpkinAngel
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