PMT - Goodbye ... at least for a while

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PMT - Goodbye ... at least for a while
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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 4:46pm
I will be avoiding the boards (and other similar distractions) for quite some time. Dh and I decided yesterday to separate (well, more like *he* decided). Divorce is looming, but we're taking it one step at a time and the first step is separation. He'll be TDY most of the summer, so it shouldn't be logistically hard to do.

So, I will be saving my energy, strength and time to give to myself and my poor kids. I'll most likely move back to Oklahoma to be with my family, at least on a temporary basis, although that won't happen for at least a few months.

I'll miss you all .. and I'll probably lurk occasionally .. but I have no energy now .. and if there's one thing this board takes, its energy.

For anyone with a deeper connection to me .. my messenger name is savcal@hotmail.com .. . and my home email is savcal@c2i2.com

bye for now .. and please .. send me all your prayers ... so I can make it through this very rough time.

Hollie

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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 4:54pm
Wow, Hollie, I don't know what to say. There isn't anything. Just know that I'm thinking about you and the kids. You guys take care of yourselves and do check in some to let us know how you are.

Lots of hugs...

Lauren


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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 4:57pm
Oh no Hollie! I am so very sorry to hear this. I was hopeful you were making progress. You will be missed, and your whole family will be in my prayers.

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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 5:06pm
You know I'm here for you. . .you've got my number and know where to find me on IM . . .and we'll talk often.

You're in my thoughts more than you know.

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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 5:11pm
Hollie I am so sorry. Best of luck to you and yours-nt

Dj

"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~

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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 6:16pm
Hollie...I am so sorry! I think u still have me on IM, & u r welcome 2 use it anytime if u need to talk. Also, I don't know where your family is in OK, but I am in OKC, and would be happy to help you out any way I can...even if it is just being a friend.

Melissa

Okmrsmommy-36, CPmom to DD-16 and DS-14

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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 7:42pm
Hijack............................................................

Today is Hollie's birthday. Extra support would be appreciated, I'm sure.

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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 8:46pm
May you find strength, courage, and ultimately peace (nft)
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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 8:58pm
Oh, Hollie, I am so sorry to hear that. I'm wishing you strength and peace, whatever the outcome. You know where to find me if you need anything.
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Wed, 05-14-2003 - 9:21pm
Hollie,

I am so sorry to hear about your news. I wish you the best. Perhaps, you might want to visit a divorce support board. I have found the support boards to be very helpful and not as time consuming.

take care.

Michelle

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Registered: 11-20-2001
Wed, 05-14-2003 - 10:07pm
You're right ... you need all your energy. I am so very sad for you and your children. I hope for the best for all of you ...

Linda

 

Linda - wife, mother, grandmum                     &nb

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