Is SAH really because the children what

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Is SAH really because the children what
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Fri, 10-06-2006 - 3:33pm

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Okay first I want to say hello everyone I haven't had the time to keep up with this very fast moving board :)


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Registered: 05-19-2006
Fri, 10-13-2006 - 9:40pm

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Registered: 10-11-2006
Fri, 10-13-2006 - 11:02pm

Since your sister's < i think that is what you said> children's are living with you you allow her and them to rule your roost.... to take charge of your home?

I find that to be minupulating.

For my life ...any child who comes into my home lives under my structure my boundaries my rules having a open mind or they are not welcome... for the most part.




Edited 10/13/2006 11:07 pm ET by yesmomma
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Fri, 10-13-2006 - 11:11pm
great....of course....
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Registered: 10-11-2006
Fri, 10-13-2006 - 11:17pm

i never said you said you twisted my words. i said you twisted my words to make your point...POT KEETLE BLACK...

what was your point anyway... I forgot ;)

btw i know parents raise children....so do many other individuals...NO?

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Registered: 10-11-2006
Fri, 10-13-2006 - 11:23pm

no i dont have time to post a link read the thread...woh or sah are not marked ... in the final outcome... unless they are tatttoed i was a LOL ...you fill in the blank...

there are no permantent body marks on children in the home they were raised in ...and i doubt you would know over a cup of coffee if i was bisexual a heterosexual or a mafia family.

"marked difference along the way as they grow" what in the sam heck are you talking about....

a lable? you are now marked for your parents statis or are the parents marking the child....




Edited 10/13/2006 11:44 pm ET by yesmomma
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Fri, 10-13-2006 - 11:33pm

This is one place i vibe the nasty attitude.

but remember that is simply...my opinion.

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Fri, 10-13-2006 - 11:33pm

If you mean that our schedule is somewhat ditated by our working schedules, yes, they are but then so is Dylan's school schedule, my school schedule, dh's school schedule, Angela's school schedule. There is church on Sunday; Dylan's karate lessons on Sat. Add in dh's mom's needs. And then there is life to disrupt any schedule. I chose to work both at home and away from home to pay the bills. I'm also taking a class in patternmaking to upgrade my dressmaking skills. Dh is finishing his BA and then getting his MA to further his career. All of the above is how we have chosen to financially support the way that we wanted to raise our family. No matter how we finance our family, we would still raise our children with the same goals, ethics, morals,etc. That wouldn't change.

Chris

The truth may be out there but lies are in your head. Terry Pratchett

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Sat, 10-14-2006 - 12:00am
I think our job as a parent isn't necessarily to do what our children WANT, but to do what is best for them. An that is why I stay home. I think that, that is the best thing for my kids.
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Sat, 10-14-2006 - 12:08am

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No, they do not rule my home.

 

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Registered: 10-11-2006
Sat, 10-14-2006 - 12:10am
yehhhhhh!!!!!!!

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