Is SAH really because the children what
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Is SAH really because the children what
| Fri, 10-06-2006 - 3:33pm |
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Okay first I want to say hello everyone I haven't had the time to keep up with this very fast moving board :)
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Jennie
I didn't say they were marked. I said explain the marked differences. But I have a feeling you know that and instead of just answering the question you decided to to a little dance with words.
You said <<<<<>>>> And I want to know what the marked differences are in that outcome between sah and woh kids.
It's a very simple question, really.
This is a very important point. I have always worked - right back after DD was 6 weeks old (however only for 3/4 days a week). At one point when she was just turning 3, I took a sabattical to try out working for my DH and to allow me to be home for greater flexibility. SHe was very upset by this. She kept asking why I didn't go to my office anymore. She all of the sudden wanted to go see my co-workers. She wanted to keep going to "school". She didn't want anything to do with me in the mornings and actually would physically try to push me out of the room because "daddy wake Jenna up". The change in routine was very upsetting to her. And strangely she is not a rountine needy kid.
However, her life up to that point had been structured a certain way and the new way was upsetting at that time. It might be different now, but at that moment in time, me working was what she knew and understood.
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What opportunities? I think that's extraordinary. I would definitely WOH if my children were being deprived, no question.
So, the daycare will expel 3 yr-olds who are not yet potty-trained? Because pre-schools here will do that.
Pre-schools charge a premium because of the quality and intensive learning curriculum covered during the little time spent there (say 3 hrs/weekday for 9 months).
Say, parents pay $14K for those 15 hrs/wk - 9 mths/year. Are you saying, the parents who use the daycare only part for 36 to 40 hours/week for 12 mths/year are paying at that same expensive rate - almost $40K for a daycare center, and no pre-school??
<<"because it is all about the children" is maytrish and frustrating for those of us that WOH.>>
Well, that's your issue and you'll have to learn to grow up, I guess. I quit a job to sah and raise my children. Maybe you think I quit to sah and eat bon bons. You'd be wrong.
Don't you woh to raise your children? Or are you selfishly secreting your earnings away for yourself and DH only?
There may be more reasons to woh than just to raise your kids. But the only reason I quit a job to sah was to raise my kids. The first step was seeing that we could afford it and then it was a no-brainer after that.
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