Is SAH really because the children what
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Is SAH really because the children what
| Fri, 10-06-2006 - 3:33pm |
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Okay first I want to say hello everyone I haven't had the time to keep up with this very fast moving board :)
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In your opinion it's not healthy, but the studies and statistics prove otherwise...that it doesn't matter.
Lol...we are starting to talk in circles. I copy and pasted your quote. It would be virtually immpossible to misquote your words.
Iam not asking questions that ? mark was a a typo it should have read your work, your woh statis has nothing to do with raising your kids...it is a *different part of your identity perhaps? It has nothing to do with how you raise your kids it has nothing to do with your parenting style it is a "different idntity you have?
I dont know im simply trying to understand.
Did your mother teach you anything when she was a woh or a sah mom?
My mother was a WAH mom and a WOH mom... at our family buisness it is now my brothers. My sister is a sah mom....my mother was always a WOH mom my mother in law was a sah mom.
This women claims she is not a parenting those children that she is not "raising" them their mother is over the phone...so then imo those children are being neglected...raising children is not only about installing values and morals of choice from the telephone mother she is helping to raise those kids and bring them up healthy and happy...I did not lable this view...it is her view that she is not raising those kids her sis is over the phone... i wonder how her sister cook's them dinner over the phone and tuck's them in at nite help's give them bath's and kisses them when they cry you get the pictur..it is a negative view imo to deny you are not a part of a child's upbringing when you are caring for them on a daily basis in your home when you are the one responsible for them and their needs on a daily basis.
She is not a parent she is a legal <?> guardian.
YOu find nothing negative in the idea of her line of thought in being a guardian?
I do...
that does not mean her choice is wrong but it is not positive for her nieces or nephew's.
I i know a few grandmother's, aunt's, sisters, brothers, DCP... ect who have legal right's to a child who is not their actual birth children... who are raising those children when their mother's cannot or helping the parent raise the child.
Edited 10/15/2006 9:08 pm ET by yesmomma
Avoid all my many post's.. perhaps then you will stop counting. That is weird...
What makes that so interesting?
I am stating my opinions...that is what this board is about.
I put these type of comments into the context so we all know that it really is none of my business but b/c it is up for debate iam speaking my views.
This is not a support board.
I bet that has been posted here a hundred times.
no where have i said you drip you have a alter ego and you refuse to answer questions b/c you are a deliberate liar who is condecending and incisitent...blah blah blah...
I have given my position if it is agreed upon or not...
the bottom line is ppl are gonna do what they are gonna do...that includes you and me.
B/c they have nothing substantial to add...
here i will copy and paste it
" Do i really have to say to make my point that educators care for children? I provided a link for you more than once where i expounded on my opinion...did you miss that or are you just ignoring that fact?"
Ill break it down for you in simple terms.
Do i really have to say that "Educators care for children" to make my point that teachers in the public school system are not DCP's? I provided you one of the many links where i have expounded my opinion more than once... did you miss that fact or are you just ignoring it, pumkinangel?
Sabina < i think that is right forgive me if i addressed your screename incorrectly im not sure how you understand this
" How can all these thing not all involved be involved in each other it is who you are no? "
Your good... what i mean is How can all these parts of a person not be invovled in who you are?
As for the sex...the way i have sex with my dh has nothing to do with how i raise my children... that is a intimate time between my dh and i...but the value of sex and intamacy is a part of how i raise my children...my older children can understand that women and men have sex and can make babies unless we take precautions :) they know that men can love men and be intamate but cannot make babies, like mom and dad and same for women they can adopt children. They learned about the act of sex at a very young age thru my chickens and livestock and then the idea of how babies are made thru our bunnies. LOL!
Are you saying that some ppl's work life is a private like they hide it rom their families? ? I dont know im not sure what you are trying to say...how can someones work not be a part of their identity and how they raise their child? and how can the statis not have a positive or negative effect or both... on their children?
How can a man who cannot hold a job go from job to job not be a part of his identity and not have a effect on how he raises his children? how can a women who sah and sit's on her butt all day doing nothing but watching t.v and eating ...neglecting her child not effect her kid's? how can a parent who is a school teacher not influence her children to be teachers in some form? How does what one does to raise their family not effect how they raise their family? The final outcome?
Look at ty pennington who is on t.v right now < do you know who iam talking bout> not effect every person he touches by what he does to raise his family...not sure if he has one...but let's say he does.
"Imagine" i got that off your blinkies....you were not the one counting... i think you may have said 84? or was it someone else please by all means correct me if im wrong. i bet it is much higher. teehee. I have the "majority of the post's here" and you "can't help but notice?" dont worry bout me...im fine i dont want to be noticed.
I love to eat cake. :)
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