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SAHM's and Money
| Fri, 06-23-2006 - 1:57pm |
I am a WOHM but have always felt like this, even as a kid. I know it is probably wrong, but it is a strong feeling I have had.
When SAHM's say "I bought this or "I saved MY money for this", I always want to say "YOUR" money? Now, don't get me wrong, my mom was a SAHM and a great one at that but she would get spending money every week, just like I do, while working, but I can't feel technically that it was "HER" money.
Staying home is a hard job, being home today I can say that it is much harder to have a stressful out of the house job AND have kids but it is more physically demanding then my job.
I just feel that any money in the household has been made by the dh and is really "HIS" all the time. He just gives it to his wife to spend. I know this is horrible but I was wondering if anyone else felt this way?
When SAHM's say "I bought this or "I saved MY money for this", I always want to say "YOUR" money? Now, don't get me wrong, my mom was a SAHM and a great one at that but she would get spending money every week, just like I do, while working, but I can't feel technically that it was "HER" money.
Staying home is a hard job, being home today I can say that it is much harder to have a stressful out of the house job AND have kids but it is more physically demanding then my job.
I just feel that any money in the household has been made by the dh and is really "HIS" all the time. He just gives it to his wife to spend. I know this is horrible but I was wondering if anyone else felt this way?

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Ever have a bad day? Seriously. I think what you're describing is the exception, not the rule in most households. Moreover, my DH understands that there will be days that he comes to home to a messy house and that if he doesn't run through the drive through, there is no dinner. It doesn't happen often, but if I'm sick or DS is sick, sometimes the house isn't clean and dinner isn't on the table. And our family has survived that just fine.
Sometimes, I don't cook dinner at all if DH isn't going to be home or is eating dinner out. DS and I will have a salad or go out to dinner. I don't particularly enjoy cooking, it's something of a necessary evil for me. So sometimes, I just don't do it.
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