SAHMs: can't do anything right
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| Wed, 12-06-2006 - 8:11am |
I've noticed in the lifestyles thread that almost everything SAHM's do is immediately knocked down or one-upped. I don't see that the same is true for the WOHM's on the thread. Some examples:
If a SAHM cleans the house during the day, she isn't spending quality time with her children, or any more time with her children than do WOHM's. If she doesn't clean the house, she is being overinvolved with her children and interacting too much with them; she's not giving them time for free play.
If a SAHM teaches her children, she is an overachiever who is trying to produce an Einstein, not allowing her children to develop at their own rate, buying into commercialism. If she doesn't teach her children, she is just leaving them to their own devices while she gets "me time" or isn't providing them with the opportunities that daycare or preschool provides.
If a SAHM tries to socialize her children by letting them interact with other children on a regular basis, that's very nice, but kids of WOHM's in day care get MORE interaction, which is obviously BETTER. If a SAHM doesn't plan plenty of socialization activities, she isn't preparing her children for school.
If a SAHM tries to schedule regular activities and outings for her children, she's producing "jaded" children, forgoing a routine, "working too hard," wasting time driving around, and not providing enough time for her children to explore and investigate their own environment. If she doesn't schedule regular activities and outings, then her children are deprived of the many wonderful, exciting experiences that all day cares have to offer.
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So tell me, WOHM's, is there anything short of returning to work that SAHM's could do right?

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Huh?
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Well, then by all means take a moment to stop lol and explain to me how you could contribute to a 401k or how you could accrue money before taxes to pay for summer camp.
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<<it's what many do for the needs and wants in their lives but miles away from unqiue.....but i do agree sahms are.>>
Asking again.....what is unique about sahms?
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Every post where you tell me that I ignored the content of her post and asked her a question. Remember that?
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You are right. Then again I wasn't the one that said I was confused.
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Again are we not allowed to ask a question? I wasn't answering the post that she wrote to rolyco, just asking her a question. I can see that you are confused. It is very apparent.
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I don't pay to post here. So I don't have that key.
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My point was people can save tax free for a lot of things.
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Well you said you had followed the thread. I can only go on what you have said you did. If you had followed the thread you would have seen the context to which we were speaking. So here we are, back to context.
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Context...context...context.
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Context...context...context.
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You have yet to show what is unique about anything that a WOHP does. Still waiting. A WOHP may accomplish having a 401K but that in no way is unique.
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First of all contributing to a 401K is not unique.... available to the WOH, and WAH but not unique and not to just WOHP, and WAHP. So still waiting for what is unique about WOHP.
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DING DING DING DING You said it right there. You can accomplish this but it isn't unique. BIG difference. Nothing unique about contributing to a 401K.
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LMAO...This is absolutely hysterical. There is NOTHING unique here. Not one thing. It is available but not unique. That would be like saying the preschool at the church 4 blocks from my home is unique to only SAHM. They only take children that have a SAHP. It isn't unique. It is available. Nothing unique about one thing you have stated. I have posted the definition of unique more than once. If you read that you will see nothing you have stated is unique. You accomplished this...it isn't unique.
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So which is it? Incorrect or did I ignore her? I couldn't have possibly done both yet you have accused me of both.
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What does my family have that yours doesn't.
My answer....A SAHM. That is about as correct as it gets.
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This isn't unique.
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No you have said exclusive to WOH. This would be a unique thing if only one person got to do this within your company. It isn't unique...it is a benefit that you pay for.
Sabina
Oh, lifeis a glorious cycle of song, a medley of extemporanea:
And love is a thing that can never go wrong; and I am Marie of Roumania.
Sabina
Oh, life is a glorious cycle of song,
I agree that the issues lies primarily at the feet of the insurance industry. However, the same industry is also behind clasifying impotence as a medical condition that requires and deserves a treatment which is fully covered by insurance plans. The recognition of impotence as a medical condition coincides, unabashedly, with the marketing of a new class of drugs that are now bringing the phara industry billions.
Their marketing campaign has been tremendously successful, too, of which the language used in this debate is but one example.
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