SAH/WOH--extramarital affairs
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SAH/WOH--extramarital affairs
| Tue, 02-15-2005 - 12:54pm |
I was just at the gym this morning and overheard a conversation between two women on treadmills who were discussing/debating as to whether married sahms were any more or less likely to have affairs than married wohms.
I thought it would be interesting to hear your thoughts on this.

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I dunno. I don't think they're selling all that Viagra to people dating 20 YOs.
I hear there's absolutely no better aphrodisiac for a lot of women than finally getting their kids moved out of the house and no longer being tired and busy and worrying about the possibility of getting pg.
Hmmmm . . . if I'm understanding you, yes you're correct. But frankly, at this point in my day, I'm not sure!
So do you believe that there's little difference between a grandmother's sexual appetite and someone who is younger?
From what I'm learning in adult development and aging, there is no decline in desiring physical intimacy that isn't related to health problems.
Of course it does.
But in general, overall, do you think there's little difference?
Not after the age of sexual maturity (post pubescence).
I think there is little difference. But then, I'm from the school that strongly believes that sexual desire is as much as, if not more so, a mentally driven desire as it is a physical one ... that sexual desire is driven by having an emotional bond and connection.
Therefore ... 1) if you still have as deep an emotional connection with your spouse at 60 as you did at 30, your sexual desire wouldn't decline much and 2) if you didn't have someone with whom to have an emotional connection (i.e. your spouse died) you might not be frustrated at the lack of sex.
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
>>From what I'm learning in adult development and aging, there is no decline in desiring physical intimacy that isn't related to health problems. Meaning, absent health-related instances, there are no appreciable differences in desire for physical intimacy post-pubscence.<<
But aren't health problems more prevalent in older individuals?
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