SAH/WOH--extramarital affairs
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SAH/WOH--extramarital affairs
| Tue, 02-15-2005 - 12:54pm |
I was just at the gym this morning and overheard a conversation between two women on treadmills who were discussing/debating as to whether married sahms were any more or less likely to have affairs than married wohms.
I thought it would be interesting to hear your thoughts on this.

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Or could it be ...
<< marital problems originate far more often because one partner DECREASES the output , unfairly saddling an unsuspecting spouse with decreased availablility.>>
Your post assumes that sex issues in a marriage are actually SEX issues. Usually the sex issue is only a symptom of a larger problem ... a problem that involves BOTH spouses.
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
Why? Where? How? How does that have anything to do with marriage vows? Those vows that proclaim "for better or for worse"? Would worse not be "oh well, can't really stand to touch him/her...but its part of marriage....guess the "for worse" part".
Besides. In reality, its totally impractical. Its like saying a meal should always be prepared for the pleasure of the whole family.
Sex SHOULD ALWAYS be for the pleasure of both parties. That's what distinguishes sex between two consenting adults from rape.
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
So do you have this sexual desire for anyone with whom you have an emmotional bond and connection, male and female alike, regardless of the nature of the relationship?
I don't know about you, but I discovered my sex drive way back in the days when the people with whom I had emmotional bonds and connections were all family members and girl friends. The sex drive, however, was directed most definitely at other targets, none of with whom I had any emmotional bond or connection. I merely imagined some sort of passable connection, which at one point was not alot more than "he wants me as much as I want him".
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