SAH/WOH--extramarital affairs
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SAH/WOH--extramarital affairs
| Tue, 02-15-2005 - 12:54pm |
I was just at the gym this morning and overheard a conversation between two women on treadmills who were discussing/debating as to whether married sahms were any more or less likely to have affairs than married wohms.
I thought it would be interesting to hear your thoughts on this.

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Consent does not mean there is expectation of pleasure. Its just - consent.
<< What if one parther has back sprain or something and can't participate in actual sex, but is more than happy to perform sexual acts on the partner? >>
If the person is "more than happy" to do it, then obviously they are recieving some sort of pleasure from it. It doesn't have to be *sexual pleasure* ... just pleasure. I, for one, heartily enjoy giving sexual pleasure to df, even if it isn't going to be reciprocal. But the key is .. I *enjoy* it. In your scenario, both spouses are happy ... it's a non-issue.
(I don't think I said, in any posts on this sub-sub-sub-thread that both parties had to receive *sexual* pleasure ... but that it should be pleasing to both spouses.)
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
I have had sex when I didn't particularly want to, and it wasn't particularly pleasant, but I have done it to please my dh. (or let him do it lol)
I don't think it is wrong. I'm sure he'd give me sex if I wanted it and he didn't - rofl - as if THAT would ever happen.
Nick
Yes, that is the promise he made. And then the circumstances changed. Lots of people make the promise and later divorce - because the circumstances changed. Til death do us part, does not mean til divorce do us part. In this case, divorcing her would have been selfish, and possibly led her to commit suicide. He, and the rest of her family, were walking on eggshells. She was mentally ill, but trust me, he didn't sign up for the abuse he was getting either. Being an emotional hostage is not a pretty thing.
Nick
Edited 2/21/2005 7:45 pm ET ET by ikorky9899
<<Sometimes the pleasure comes in doing something that you know your spouse desires.>>
Then it's pleasurable. That's the kind of thing i'm talking about.
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
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