SAH/WOH for Teens?

But it doesn't make sense to choose a field where it's "all or nothing" if that's not what you want out of life. I don't know how many women I know who are SAHMs because they chose a field where they couldn't balance their professional life with their home life. They went to school for years and years to become "X", and worked at it for four or five years before they had kids and found out that doing what they thought they wanted to do was incompatible with being the kind of wife and mother they want to be. They stay home a few years and then their second career if virtually always more "family friendly." So if they know ahead of time they are looking for a family friendly career, more power to them.