Should I stay or should I go?

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Registered: 01-29-2009
Should I stay or should I go?
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Mon, 05-18-2009 - 2:36pm

Hi ladies! it is so nice to be here and vent vent vent vent!!! I would like to share with you guys what is been BOTHERING me for a while now.

I'm 30 my husband is 50 (doesn't look like 50 AT ALL!) we have a 1 year old boy.

We both have good jobs (diferent cities) we've live in different states since we met. I don't like what I do and I would like to change my career and go back again to Graduate School for another major.

I am an engineer and he is an economist, I want to go back to school for a PhD in Psychology, but first I want to stay at home with my baby until he is ready to go to school and then I could go back to school. This sound like a plan since DH is getting a FANTASTIC job . I mean good benefits, good money, very nice city, etc etc etc.

The problem is:

To do so I have to leave my job and I am scared to death!!! what if we don't work out very well? I will be regreting all my life having left a good job. What I would do if we divorce? Start from zero homeless?

Since he is going to be the one making the money how does that is going to work out? He says he will support me always, and he's been trying to convince me to stay at home with our baby but I've been reluctant (reason why we live in diferent cities) to the idea of not having my own money. He is a very generous man, but with a bit of mood swings. We will be living together for the first time since tomorrow,( since he is in academia he is coming to spend the whole summer here at my city ) I guess I will take it from there and see how we work out as a couple.

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2009
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:36pm
big giant leap by you to think that "someone" misinformed me, lol
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2009
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:36pm
You know, I have never been to the V&A. I think it's being scared off by the "decorative arts" part. But I agree about the British Museum being almost too much to absorb. Everytime I go, it is to see a specific set of rooms, because too much in one day just overwhelms me. Same with the Louvre. It only works if I can say, "today Egypt, tomorrow Greece, Wednesday the Etruscan stuff..."
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Registered: 05-29-2009
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:34pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-1998
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:34pm

I did, twice....I clearly posted where you stated that you were misinformed.

PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:33pm

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Which means someone informed you incorrectly.

PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 05-29-2009
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:33pm
still waiting for you to cite where i said "someone" misinformed me.
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Registered: 06-27-1998
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:30pm

I have only been there once and it was very overwhelming, so much to see...I think it was one of my favorites that trip

PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:23pm

Ah, another unanswered question.


PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:21pm

What's the issue there?


PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 05-29-2009
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 2:19pm

i thought she already read your report on facebook?


*meez needz a magic button on my keyboard*

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