Sneaking purchases...
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| Thu, 03-25-2004 - 11:10am |
I was reading another board about sneaking purchases past their husband's. I know I use to sneak before we started doing our finances together. I would actually come home during lunch to get the mail or unload packages. I was pitiful. Even now, I will bring things in the house and wince thinking how upset Devin would be with me.
So, have you ever hid purchases or not told your DH the whole picture of your finances? We use to horrible fights about finances. I would do the weekly budget and e-mail him it. We would discuss it and everything was fine. Then, he would tell me two days later that he was doing a marathon that cost $75.00. I had to actually ask him before we did the budget-Do you have any marathons? Do you need shoes? Do you have any equipment you need? Can you tell I

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And while I'm sure you are a fine parent, it is true that you do not devote as many hours a day to it as I do. Personally, I think you would be a far happier person if you rearranged your priorities a bit...but I realize that this kind of motivation comes from within...and I'm banging my head against a brink wall. I shouldn't say anything, but your particular situation makes me feel sad because you don't seem to have any of the joy...
I have never gotten that feeling from PJ's posts. I think she is very analytical and goal oriented AND she loves her family with all her heart. Nothing about her situation (except for that #itch) has ever made me feel sad for her.
I totally think she has the joy...sometimes more than me.
Plus, her 2.5 year old sleeps on a schedule and is potty trained. I need to be more goal oriented! When do you want Alex, Felicia? I can poke some holes in a box today and ship him out. Drama King will show you his owwy thumb and sore head.
Kristi
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That is so condescending...
How can you possibly know how much joy she feels from a post on an
Hollie
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Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
Oh give me a break and what an utter load of complete crap.
PumpkinAngel
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