Sneaking purchases...
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| Thu, 03-25-2004 - 11:10am |
I was reading another board about sneaking purchases past their husband's. I know I use to sneak before we started doing our finances together. I would actually come home during lunch to get the mail or unload packages. I was pitiful. Even now, I will bring things in the house and wince thinking how upset Devin would be with me.
So, have you ever hid purchases or not told your DH the whole picture of your finances? We use to horrible fights about finances. I would do the weekly budget and e-mail him it. We would discuss it and everything was fine. Then, he would tell me two days later that he was doing a marathon that cost $75.00. I had to actually ask him before we did the budget-Do you have any marathons? Do you need shoes? Do you have any equipment you need? Can you tell I

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I hate to jump in but I take issue w/ that statement. If these Einsteins everyone speaks of when arguing it's better for both parents to work in order to finance their children's education do study and get the grades, do the activities, etc. then they have great chances of making it into one of those "not just a State U" colleges and universities on scholarship.
And. . . as someone who has been a private and public school graduate (and grad school) I can honestly say I got a BETTER education from th 9K/year state school as opposed to my initial choice, the 28K/year private school. I was pretty much allowed to coast at the private school and spend more time on social activities (plus I was a varsity athlete) however when I got to the state school (transferred because my father became ill and I wanted to be closer to home) I had to work MUCH harder to get the same grades, even harder yet to excel. Plus, I met the smartest people I've ever known at that state school. There weren't too many Einsteins hanging around the private school.
One more thing - say you have one of these Einsteins and send them to the "best" 40k school around, it's no guarantee of his/her future - they might decide to study (quelle horror!) a language, history (w/ no desire to study law afterwards), or something they actually enjoy!
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Down here, it's acceptable to wear white after Easter and you can get away with it for a few weeks in Sept, because it's still in the 90s outside. That's for residents, however. The tourists wear white, cotton, linen and sandals all year. It's too funny to be in a restaurant in January wearing long pants and a sweater, while the tourists at the next table are in cotton shorts and sandals.
Susan
Susan
I know that in my career, I was taken much more seriously in an appropriate suit than I was when I wore more "eclectic" clothing ;) Plus, it was easier to describe to my students what they should wear to interviews by my example then it was to say "wear anything but what I'm wearing" ;)
Of course now most of my wardrobe consits of sweatpants and nursing shirts ;)
Accountants and lobbyists exist to SERVE not be served; so who cares what they think of my clothing?
That's very true.
Mondo
What if you're a colleague, and not hiring them?
You once said you're a total nonconformist.
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I had to laugh about this one. You're right! I was interviewing in the early 90's for a technical position in San Francisco for headquarters of Computeruland.
Mondo
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