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| Thu, 03-25-2004 - 11:10am |
I was reading another board about sneaking purchases past their husband's. I know I use to sneak before we started doing our finances together. I would actually come home during lunch to get the mail or unload packages. I was pitiful. Even now, I will bring things in the house and wince thinking how upset Devin would be with me.
So, have you ever hid purchases or not told your DH the whole picture of your finances? We use to horrible fights about finances. I would do the weekly budget and e-mail him it. We would discuss it and everything was fine. Then, he would tell me two days later that he was doing a marathon that cost $75.00. I had to actually ask him before we did the budget-Do you have any marathons? Do you need shoes? Do you have any equipment you need? Can you tell I

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Why should I reread Funsahm's posts? I didn't write them so you're wrong imply because she insulted you, I'M fair game for your slights. How silly!
You don't think it's kinda insulting to say to someone something like, Yes, you were unloved by adults when you were a child so you can't possibly understand where we're all coming from - unlike you, we were loved as children. It's OK for the majority here to decry Funsahm's comments against WOH, but when I call someone on an insult, you tell me to have a thicker skin? Sounds a little unbalanced to me.
It's interesting that you ask that because I asked that very question to my dh a little while back when I was toying with the idea of working odd shifts to be home with my dd more. I happen to think that there will be some (not a lot but a little) difference, but my dh thought that there will likely be *no* difference. I didn't know whether to be happy that he has that much confidence in our nanny or be insulted.
Edited to clarify: the post I'm referring to is #745
Edited 4/2/2004 6:19 pm ET ET by iaudrey00
EXCUSE ME?
PumpkinAngel
and *that* my dear is a very ignorant attitude. i did sah with my children. you are under the @$$umption everyone who sah with their children, absolutely looooove it. that is so not true. i did love it for the first few years, but it got old, and i wanted more for *me*.
otoh, my sister has worked ft her whole adult life, and would have been silly to stop a great career when she wouldnt have been happy at home 24/7 either.
sah is *not* the "be all, end all" for everyone. maybe for you, but we are not all you, and frankly im glad im me and not you!!
p.s. if you put my children who had a sahm in a room with my sister's kids who had a wohm, you wouldnt be able to pick which is which, so your theory is simply that and nothing more.
Honey, you have a lot to learn. Us very experienced moms have raised some pretty awesome kids and guess what they are humans just like your kids. nothing is different. schools were just as wild when i was in school, the world is just as crazy, or maybe a tad less crazy than the 60s and 70s.
you sound just like my kids.....that was then and this is now. moms arent any smarter today than they were 20, 40, 60 years ago!
sheesh, the more you post the deeper you dig yourself into a hole. let me know when you get to china, we'll order up some take-out!!!
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