Sneaking purchases...
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| Thu, 03-25-2004 - 11:10am |
I was reading another board about sneaking purchases past their husband's. I know I use to sneak before we started doing our finances together. I would actually come home during lunch to get the mail or unload packages. I was pitiful. Even now, I will bring things in the house and wince thinking how upset Devin would be with me.
So, have you ever hid purchases or not told your DH the whole picture of your finances? We use to horrible fights about finances. I would do the weekly budget and e-mail him it. We would discuss it and everything was fine. Then, he would tell me two days later that he was doing a marathon that cost $75.00. I had to actually ask him before we did the budget-Do you have any marathons? Do you need shoes? Do you have any equipment you need? Can you tell I

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that's why comparing the ROLE of a teacher in a child's life to the ROLE of a janitor in the child's life is an insult to janitors. That's why posts that CLEARLY state someone seeks DCP who love their kids really means that NO ONE EVER seeks a DCP who will love their kids.
What. Ever.
P.S. any points you might have thought you gained by suggesting I spend too much time here are thoroughly countered by:
1) your lack of originality--every troll in the world plays variations on the "You spend all day online" game the second they run out of anything valid to argue.
2) your own time spent here--compare the numbers of posts. You've got me beat hands down in volume. Are you only counting the number of your posts that actually address the topic factually? Okay, there you have a point.....I have way more posts that address the TOPIC (rather than the person) than you do.
But she IS claiming to know the WOHMs' minds, their daycare providers, their motivations and many other things, that she has NO experience with, NO insight into, NO knowledge of and is by her ow claim completely ignorant of. I mean, I realize you have very emotionally negative feelings about daycare, but surely tthat hasn't blinded you so far to see the blatant fallacy of her claims about US based on NO experience?
I'm sorry your dd was attacked at daycare, but in the context of this thread, it's completely irrelevant to luvthebabes' arguments. Although she'll likely claim otherwise, this has never been her argument in this debate. She's not defending against people saaying SHE should use daycare; she's attacking total strangers and claiming to know more about their providers than they do. Sorry, but your dd's attack doesn't justify or substantiate her in any way.
And I support and accept that.
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