In reading over the debate board it is as obvious as the sun in the sky today that you have great disdain for women who are house wives. Even when in the discussions I've been reading it has been said it is a decision by both spouses that the wife will be at home. Why do you snub those who are obviously living so happily? And why can you not realize that those who have husbands that do help willingly and by their own accord around the house are not shoving, pawing off, neglecting, being lazy about the work around the house, it is a pre-agreement between two married people who are adults & are very capable of making decisions of how things will be? Can you just not accept that people's marriages and their relationships are at opposite ends of the spectrum and that they have a husband who would rather them take the kids to the pool (or wherever) than to bother with the housework?
I didn't know where to post this on the regular discussion as I can't figure out this congested format. I do well to lurk and read but when I go to post it gets so confusing. I apologize for starting a new category. Like a zoo in here.
I really should introduce myself since I decided to quit sitting on my hands and say something. I'm a house wife and sahm. You probably will have extra disdain for those house wives who have full time maids for the clean up and cooking.