"We don 't believe in that [WOHM]"
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| Mon, 01-09-2006 - 11:31am |
On Friday, as I was driving hom from work, I stumbled across an interview with the wife of the one surviving miner from the collapse in WVa. In the course of the interview, someone asked her if she worked.
Her response was that they don't believe in that. She explained that her husband was very proud of the fact that he was the sole supporter of the family, and that he didn't need her help in supporting them. She explained that they just don't believe in women working after they have kids and husbands, and that they believe her place is at home with the kids.
My heart really goes out to her, and this post isn't about her, but about the sentiment that women shouldn't work because their place is at home. And being a real man, even if it means working in dangerous conditions, long hours, holding two jobs and being a step away from poverty at every turn, means that your wife doesn't work.
I suppose this is the first time that I've heard someone, not a movie character or a character in a book, express this sentiment. I don't understand why anyone would be proud to limit their spouse's potential. Or why be proud that you live right on the poverty line?
If they didn't see the dangers of their POV before, surely that entire community, and even the whole country, has now seen the risk that we talk about on here all the time, the risk that suddenly the SAHM will need to find a way to financially support the family. I wonder if anyone will re-think what they believe in.

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Sorry.
PumpkinAngel
No, but she has the ability to dispatch a police officer almost any location or anywhere else.
PumpkinAngel
So again, where do you draw the line?
PumpkinAngel
Too early for dinner.
PumpkinAngel
Then why claim the man got off on a technicality and blame the defense attorney for harmning the public?
Why not be more accurate and say that the rapist was freed due to police incompetance/police error? What in the world does police error have to do with bad defense attorneys who get people off on "technicalities" anyway? I've never actually considered the constitution a technicality myself.
Yeah well, NEVER doesn't mean NEVER either around here.
Damn. Where'd my memo go on "alternate-meanings-of-simple,-common-words-that-one-uses-only-when-it-fits-one's-argument-and-keeps-one-from-admitting-one-is-wrong"?
If I make a mistake at my job it can cost a lot of money in fines.
PumpkinAngel
If you find yours, I obviously need a copy as well.
PumpkinAngel
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