What makes a person cheat?
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|Sun, 06-08-2003 - 11:08am|
Anyway, my brother found out that she has been cheating on him with an old boyfriend. She really didn't know the man she was married to very well because she had been communicating with this guy via email and she thought by erasing the emails it was safe. My brother is an IT genius and can locate anything on any compueter or system, including ones outside their home. After he found this out, he printed out the emails and gave them to her and asked her for an explanation. SHe said "how did you find these?" He told her to get a lawyer and start making a list of the things in the house she wanted that it was over.
His hurt feelings have turned to anger. He is now mad which I guess is understandable. He is going to sell the house, take 3 months off of work, hike the Appalation Trail and write a book. Now my brother is an IT guy but I have always felt he missed his calling. He should have been a writer, he got married young and never pursued it. I hope now he willt ake the time to do the things he always wanted to.
I think the anger will go away and the reality will hit him soon. I hope he can handle that. I just wonder what makes a person cheat. No matter how mad I could get at my dh, I could never cheat on him. If things aren't working out in a marriage, people need to move on first before finding someone else. But, then again both of them went from home to marriage, neither have ever rented an apartment in their life. I know my brother will do well, he will meet someone when the time is right, shoot all his life he has been called Maverick after Tom Cruise in Top Gun. He looks just like Tom Cruise, except taller.
Anyway, sorry to go on I was just floored by this revelation, I NEVER would ahve expected this from my sister in law in a million years. SHe just didn't seem like the type to do this.