What I want Dylan to experience in school is how to socialize with his peers, to follow directions and turn his work in on time and how to fail. Knowledge he will soak up on his own. If he graduates with all Cs I will be satisfied. I don't expect all As (unless he wants them like Joy did) or his name on the honor roll. What I want for Dylan is for him to feel comfortable with people his own age, not just people 20 years his senior or 7 years his junior. I want him to be comfortable being Dylan.
Dylan has asked for a TV in his room. Our response is he can have one when he can earn the money to pay for one. And pay for his portion of the cable bill. Same goes for a computer/laptop or playstation.
I'll cowboy up to "you people". If my children choose honorable working class professions, e.g. cosmetology, auto repair, plumber, carpenter, bartender, house painter...I still hope they would at least have a community college education, though I'd prefer they'd have a 4year degree, as well as any apprenticeships they need. If they did not try some college, I would be disappointed not because they chose a working class profession, but because I think that education can greatly benefit the things they need to know outside of their chosen profession, like how to market, budget, and run their job if they choose to be self-employed.
I'm pretty sure that I'm not expecting the unions in retail to provide a living wage anfd benefits for my children in the future. I'm hoping for universal healthcare to provide that safety net.
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>>Sorry, but that is what I got from the posts saying that it is wrong to expect parents to look at homework or do anything involving the schools.
do you have an opinion whether organization is a learned behavior or a trait a child is born with?
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Ducky
right now my ds has a very part time job at Dunkin' Donuts. He makes $8.50 or so per hour. Even working FT, how is he to actually LIVE on that?
eileen
All I've ever said is that the school shouldn't rely on parental involvement to teach the basics.
What I want Dylan to experience in school is how to socialize with his peers, to follow directions and turn his work in on time and how to fail. Knowledge he will soak up on his own. If he graduates with all Cs I will be satisfied. I don't expect all As (unless he wants them like Joy did) or his name on the honor roll. What I want for Dylan is for him to feel comfortable with people his own age, not just people 20 years his senior or 7 years his junior. I want him to be comfortable being Dylan.
Chris
The truth may be out there but lies are in your head. Terry Pratchett
Dylan has asked for a TV in his room. Our response is he can have one when he can earn the money to pay for one. And pay for his portion of the cable bill. Same goes for a computer/laptop or playstation.
Chris
The truth may be out there but lies are in your head. Terry Pratchett
I'll cowboy up to "you people". If my children choose honorable working class professions, e.g. cosmetology, auto repair, plumber, carpenter, bartender, house painter...I still hope they would at least have a community college education, though I'd prefer they'd have a 4year degree, as well as any apprenticeships they need. If they did not try some college, I would be disappointed not because they chose a working class profession, but because I think that education can greatly benefit the things they need to know outside of their chosen profession, like how to market, budget, and run their job if they choose to be self-employed.
I'm pretty sure that I'm not expecting the unions in retail to provide a living wage anfd benefits for my children in the future. I'm hoping for universal healthcare to provide that safety net.
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