when you don't HAVE TO

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-15-2006
when you don't HAVE TO
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Thu, 09-23-2010 - 8:06am

IRL friend i were talking personal things on the phone yesterday.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-1998
Mon, 09-27-2010 - 9:02pm

"If you have to do the opposite of what you want to do, you're better off if you really don't have a choice."



Having to do the opposite of what you want to do is the very definition of not having a choice. Not sure why you think there's a difference.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-15-2006
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 8:35am
perhaps she means it's easier to do something when you have no choice, which is the whole crux of this debate, LOL.

 

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