Who has influenced your sah/woh
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Who has influenced your sah/woh
| Thu, 02-09-2006 - 2:39pm |
opinion to DIFFER. What I mean is--is there anyone on this board or in real life whose opinion/reasoning/debating/facts started to make your thinking more to the middle? As in if you thought sah or woh was best & then after some discussion/thought, you began to think that whatever is best for each family--really there is no one best way, etc.
We just really needed a new thread here!!!!!!!!


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"I am under no illusions whatsoever that this is indeed a distinct possibility."
She's, what, 11?
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And I now understand why you didn't need a prenup - you and he each came into the marriage with lots of money. That's not an issue of trust."
No, he had "lots of money" I had exactly $113k to my name. I remember as I checked it all out before we combined accounts. The money coming to me will come when my folks pass away. They are healthy as horses. I'm hoping that's not for years and years.
We didnt have a prenup because we trust eachother...shock shock. Just like I don't feel 'threatened' by my own husbands relationship with our children.
<<"Likewise, why do you assume that they won't be ready? What if your teens are ready and in fact do choose to have sex regardless of whether you agree or not? What then?>>
"I assume that because I've never known a 15 year old who was emotionally or financially ready to begin sexual activity at that age. Obviously, it's their choice, but any way they look at it - adoption, abortion or raising a child - pg is tough on a 15 year old."
And how many 21 year old adults (using your definition of adult) do you think fit your description LOL :)
"But having sex does not always mean being promiscuous. Promiscuous means having lots of sex partners (generally in a short period of time)."
Yes :)
But you surely got your liberal views from somewhere.
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bwah..can i sit on that boring and old fashioned bench with you?
sex at 15 is a negative consequence to a relationship imo.....if it was something we should permit and just say oh dear daughter or dear son, it's your choice, good luck, kiss kiss and move on, then kids wouldn't be *doing it* in alleys, sneaking out to do it or doing it at someone elses home where mommy and daddys aren't home..kwim?
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