Who has influenced your sah/woh
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Who has influenced your sah/woh
| Thu, 02-09-2006 - 2:39pm |
opinion to DIFFER. What I mean is--is there anyone on this board or in real life whose opinion/reasoning/debating/facts started to make your thinking more to the middle? As in if you thought sah or woh was best & then after some discussion/thought, you began to think that whatever is best for each family--really there is no one best way, etc.
We just really needed a new thread here!!!!!!!!


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You claim that because these things didn't matter to you, then Mom34101 can't make her "blanket" statements about parental care being more ideal. Well, it's been pointed out that society and lawmakers care about and demand that maximum ratios not be exceeded. How can you ignore something so important it's been enacted into law! It really proves Mom34101's statement that across-the-board parents care and thus sah is more ideal.
It's not about debate style. You're excellent at debate when you know you can win! It's about irrelevant tangents. It's about going on for days and days with Mom34101 instead of just admitting parents including yourself cared about ratios.
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"In order to keep men up, they must have someone they are above. That someone is women (evidenced by the rates of abuse against women and the salary gap)."
Are you suggesting that "rates of abuse against women and the salary gap" make men superior to women? How so? Could you please provide some proof that this is the case (other than your opinion of course)?
"You don't want the women self sufficient, you want them dependent but how do you convince them to accept being dependent on men?"
What a load of crap LOL! Are you suggesting that women who SAH aren't self sufficient, independent women? Could you please provide some proof that this is the case (other than your opinion of course)?
"You convince them that what they do is necessary, better, needed, etc, etc, etc...that there are things more important than money and autonomy,"
But what they do IS necessary, better, needed, etc. to those who deem it as such. You are aware that it is perfectly acceptable for women to CHOOSE to SAH, right? And yes, in fact there are MANY things more important than money. As for autonomy, are you suggesting that women who SAH aren't autonomous? Could you please provide some proof that this is the case (again, other than your opinion of course)?
"(while you go off to work and earn more money and autonomy not having to think twice about home because the little woman is there to take care of everything and you once you get home)"
Not having to think twice about home because the little woman is there to take care of everything and you once you get home??? Wow, you are seriously living under a rock in the dark ages LOL! Are you suggesting that this is an accurate scenerio wrt women who SAH? Could you please provide some proof that this is the case (again, other than your opinion of course)?
Why are you so keen to actively devalue women with such inaccurate and archaic stereotypes that are clearly far fetched beyond the extreme? Maybe it's something stemming from your childhood, some sort of physical or mental abuse you might have experienced, or perhaps serious issues with self-esteem?
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