Who has influenced your sah/woh
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Who has influenced your sah/woh
| Thu, 02-09-2006 - 2:39pm |
opinion to DIFFER. What I mean is--is there anyone on this board or in real life whose opinion/reasoning/debating/facts started to make your thinking more to the middle? As in if you thought sah or woh was best & then after some discussion/thought, you began to think that whatever is best for each family--really there is no one best way, etc.
We just really needed a new thread here!!!!!!!!


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It doesn't matter in your particular case anyway, because nurses aren't breaking glass ceilings either.
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Jennie
Your welcome.
So since you didn't rank this particular experience, although as you say it doesn't change the fact that everything has a better or worse...when do you rank or not rank?
PumpkinAngel
Oh, I don't agree.
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You mean, most SAHMs can afford to pay for excellent othercare and someone to help them with the household chores they no longer have time for once they WOH?
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What is it that you say....your proof doesn't hold water?
PumpkinAngel
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Trust othercare? When did I ever state I didn't trust othercare? I do not like othercare for babies and toddlers. I do not see the point or advantage. It has nothing to do with trust. When I went back to work with my oldest, my sister watched her. I trusted her completely.
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If the financial aspect, living in a huge house, the most expensive schools, are what is most important to your family than yes! And I do not mean that in a negative way at all. We all have diferent levels of comfort. Your idea of saving for the future and mine are probably complete different. Judging from your posts only, I think you would not have enjoyed being at home. I do not think everyone should sah or is meant to sah. Everyone is different.
We live in a decent house, living pretty much debt free and my children go to a great catholic school. Could we have more if I had worked? Maybe but it is all relative. More is not always better.
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