Why are we against eachother?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2007
Why are we against eachother?
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Thu, 12-27-2007 - 11:08pm

I've come to this board a couple times (mostly a lurker) and I always wonder why SAHM's and WOHM's have to be almost "enemies"?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2007
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 11:59pm

AMEN!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-13-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 9:16am

I agree!! I have said the same thing but was told that then there wouldn't be a reason for a debate would there?


I think really we are simply doing a disservice to mothers when we don't get along.


I am currently home but have done both, sah and woh. I see advantages to both and disadvantages to both. It is simply a choice that each of us must make for whatever reason that works for each family, but not everyone sees it that way!


Lori

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2004
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 11:29am

I am a full supporter of both sides.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2003
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 11:35am

People can debate issues without battling or being enemies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 11:57am

Actually no.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-05-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 12:04pm

What she actually

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Ducky

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 12:12pm

He who does not stand with me, stands against me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 12:16pm

The world to you may be black and white but for many of us its alot of shades of gray.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2003
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 12:17pm
I find that generally there are a number of well-reasoned and nuanced positions across the spectrum of WOH/SAH. And generally most people get over the "he who does not stand with me, stands against me" outlook by college.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 12:33pm

Not when debating.

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