Why do some parents have to be so
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Why do some parents have to be so
| Tue, 02-06-2007 - 1:51pm |
ridiculously difficult. I am a SAHM that decided this year I would watch a couple of children to make some extra money. I have lurked on this board a lot and notice quite a few WOHM here. I just stopped watching this one baby that I just couldn't figure out the parents. The baby was a mess all the time. She was sick, had multiple respiratory problems, and cried all the time. Every time I called the parents to pick the baby up due to wheezing, or fever they seemed annoyed with me. Which I thought was odd. I have a strict policy that if the children have green noses they must go home. Also if the children have a fever they must go home and not return for 24 hours after the fever has broken or on antibiotics. Well I could never figure out why the baby cried so much until I was talking to the mother. Apparently they allow this baby to sit in a swing in the evenings and on weekends to get her to sleep. So the only time this baby naps during the day on the weekends is in a swing. Well that is not going to happen here. The baby is almost 20 lbs and I am not purchasing a swing for this child to sleep in. So according to the mother this child goes home around 5:30 or 6pm and sleeps from 6:30 until 6:30 the next day. No wonder...she won't nap here. So I told the mother that if I couldn't get the baby to nap during the day then I would no longer be keeping this baby. Well I guess she didn't believe me and I gave these parents a 1 week notice. I can't imagine having my baby that I haven't seen all day sleep a half hour after I got home and sleep until the next morning. I have tried for 4 months to get this baby on a schedule. When the other 2 children I have take their nap this child screams and screams. Just weird to me that a parent would want this for their child.


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'kay. five days a week, the child is is put in a crib to nap. consistently.
again, you are blinded by the fact that you have no idea how infants respond to multiple caregivers. you will have to take the word of those of us who involved our children's fathers and others in our children's infancy, and believe that we did not all have to ape one another excactly to make our infants happy and healthy.
there are several, as well as several elaborating on and rationalizing her doing so.
by the by, are you tasting any of the irony? it seems to me that you are saying the same thing, in your exchange with clw. the parents should be following the dcps lead--not using the swing, not nursing the child to sleep, etc.--rather than to each their own. my way or the highway isn't any healthier coming from a dcp than from a spouse.
<<<'kay. five days a week, the child is is put in a crib to nap. consistently.>>>
And 7 days a week she is put in a swing to sleep. Hmmm.
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Why would you think that?
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Hey I am not the one that said consistency. Heres another shock for you. My children's father is actively involved in their care. Amazing isnt it.
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Ok again i will ask. WHERE? I have yet to see a post as to what you are describing.
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Um no I didn't. Can you please elaborate how you are drawing these conclusions?
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