Why do "you" even care if I ......

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Why do "you" even care if I ......
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Wed, 02-25-2009 - 11:10pm

(You general you) am even going back to work after my toddler goes to school?


I am a sahm with

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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 12:13pm

I didn't say I didn't know better...I said that COULD have been my impression.


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Registered: 07-19-2006
Sun, 03-22-2009 - 12:16pm

Sure, so that the same ladies can came back and disagree AGAIN.


No, thanks, I am pretty sure I am not going to change certain peoples minds about it at all no mater how I word it.


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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 12:20pm

But you know, it's a debate board.


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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 12:21pm

In fairness to whoville, with whom I rarely agree, you are mixing up two separate ideas. It finally seems to be agreed by all participants that there are good parents and bad parents and that the good/bad split has nothing to do with work status. That is what the statement "I don't think work status makes one bit of difference." is all about. It has to do with the value to the kids.

As far as society, society is most likely better off if more people work. That is what whoville is talking about in the stuff you are quoting.

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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 12:23pm
Where exactly do you see yourself to be in disagreement with the WOHMs?
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Registered: 11-08-2006
Sun, 03-22-2009 - 2:02pm

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I have NO breath (nor typing) to waste trying to convince her, our resident mwohm, about anything. Been there, done that. I have debated her again and again and again.

Of course, it would be important for you to return the favor when some msahm (which we seem to get just about once every week or so) comes on here saying how wohms should never have had kids if we weren't going to sah and raise them. Isn't that a sweet sentiment?

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Registered: 07-19-2006
Sun, 03-22-2009 - 2:06pm

I am not in disagreement with WMs, I am in disagreement with some wm that had replied to my posts saying things like, sahm are not valuable to society, the world would be a better place with out sahms, sahm are wasting their time, just some example of the statement that I DO NOT agree with.


I already did explain why I do not agree, so I see no need to word it differently, I really think I won't change their minds any way, so why waste my time??

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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 2:09pm

Uh, no it wouldn't be important for me to return "a favor" (what favor?? favor to whom??) and agree with a statement I DO NOT AGREE ON.


Not all sahms agree with statements made by militant moms.

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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 2:13pm

I hear what you are saying, she just keeps posting over and over again, disagreeing with everything I say.


Even when I say I DO AGREE with something she says, she either brings back older statements I do not agree with or finds something else to bedate about.


Quite frankly I am getting tired of it lol, is getting boring...!!!

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Sun, 03-22-2009 - 2:18pm

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Technically, you're only in disagreement with ONE wohm. That's it. Just the ONE mwohm.

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