Why do "you" even care if I ......

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Why do "you" even care if I ......
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Wed, 02-25-2009 - 11:10pm

(You general you) am even going back to work after my toddler goes to school?


I am a sahm with

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 11:50am

I agree. You pretty much do snark, and that's about it.


what happend to pussbouquet or whatnot?

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Registered: 01-09-2009
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 12:30pm

I don't know if you also found the fllowing to be offensive, but if so, could you tell me what is offensive about it?

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Tue, 03-24-2009 - 12:31pm
Thanks. Your opinion will receive all the consideration it's due.

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Tue, 03-24-2009 - 12:33pm
:;snort;:

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Tue, 03-24-2009 - 12:42pm

hee,hee,hee


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Registered: 02-06-2006
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 12:43pm

Ha!


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Tue, 03-24-2009 - 1:01pm
I've been there, done that. If you are interested you can read the rest of the thread.
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Registered: 12-31-2008
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 1:10pm

And of course you say nothing of your misinterpretation of the board rules.

tsk, tsk right back at you.

btw, that wasn't meant literally, but yes, I guess according to the rules you should offer a welcome.

hmm, actually I still don't see where I asked for a welcome posts, I just asked if the snide remarks were a stab or a welcome post? GUess you want to avoid answering that as well. :D

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Registered: 12-31-2008
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 1:24pm

>>It is neither "judging," hateful or insulting to offer my considered opinion as a BTDT mother that you need not be a SAHM to raise your kids yourself<<

Ok, I'll agree with that, but obviously it's considered judging and hateful is one does feel as if a day care provider is raising her child? Again, I stress IF. That is what I don't understand.

>>If she tells me that she can not find and/or pay for acceptable other care, for example, and therefore considers it a better choice to do the initial caring herself, that is a reason that is logical.<<

Is the standard for logic one that wants to work? I'm not understanding this part of your post. What if her decision had nothing to do with finances. What if she just really wanted to be there for all aspects of raising her child? Why is that illogical?

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Tue, 03-24-2009 - 1:25pm

I have, I was providing the posts that you say no one will provide, well some of them anyway.

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