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| Wed, 02-25-2009 - 11:10pm |
(You general you) am even going back to work after my toddler goes to school?
I am a sahm with
| Wed, 02-25-2009 - 11:10pm |
(You general you) am even going back to work after my toddler goes to school?
I am a sahm with
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btw, I want to thank you for proving my point. Even though I explained why I didn't want to discuss this on the board, you continue to dredge it up. Just like comments I made and corrected.
And then come here and say ""That seems to be too difficult a task for the poster it was sent to."" Why say this? It's not true and it was explained why? So, why don't you at least tell this person I don't want to talk about in a public form?
If that wasn't the post that you were offended by, why did you say that you reported it?
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The board "rules" you posted are general to all IV message boards. Those of us who have been around IV for awhile, though, are aware of a few things that are not reflected in the rules. One, support boards and debate boards operate very differently, and often the rules of play are interpreted differently when it comes to debate boards. Things that would be deleted on support boards are, often, accepted on debate boards. IIRC, that's how debate boards came to be in the first place. Two, each board has its own culture and, obviously, history. It's kind of cool of newcomers to be respectful and aware of that before just diving in. Three, culture and history often lead to the development of individual board norms that are not posted anywhere. Example, overt proselytizing is considered an RAV on the Religion Debate board. Is that posted anywhere, no. But that's THAT board's culture.
Basically, to get all this, one needs to apply the same concept here (shades of gray, subtleties, etc.) as one might in interpreting the word "luxury" as it applies to the choice to stay home.
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Why hide your light under a bushel of bears, I ask you?
Why hide your light under a bushel of bears, I ask you?
Haha, thanks!
The Newlywed board is awfully slow....
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Why hide your light under a bushel of bears, I ask you?
Why hide your light under a bushel of bears, I ask you?
>>I can't answer for other people, I'm more curious as to why you are responding with child care workers to those who are talking about children in general, thus my comments about limiting raising and caring for children to the under 5 set.<<
Considering they responded to me, I would think they would be responding to my comments.
>>Well in one post to rollmops, she clearly was talking about boarding school and older children, post 596 and you responded with a comment about daycare providers.<<
Can you provide a link?
>>That's just one example. I guess I'm curious as to why the regular feeding and watering (humor) is limited to under the age of 5 and someone equals daycare providers? <<<
Not sure what you are asking.
>>I can't help you with that...maybe you aren't as clear as you think you are? It happens to all of us at one time or the other.<<
Yes, it does. The problem I have with this statement is there's been several who claim they don't understand what I am saying and several have said they do. One member even told me it doesn't matter what I intended, even after I apologized "if" it the statement came across wrong.
I don't know how much clearer I could be and considering this problem seems to occur with a select few, considering all the debating I do, I am not worried about it.
No, you asked me to email you the info, but stressed you would not email me back. You also stated you didn't want to talk about it? So, what should I conclude?
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