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| Wed, 02-25-2009 - 11:10pm |
(You general you) am even going back to work after my toddler goes to school?
I am a sahm with
| Wed, 02-25-2009 - 11:10pm |
(You general you) am even going back to work after my toddler goes to school?
I am a sahm with
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>>You are failing to take into account the difference in staff, training, and experience of the two situations as well.<<
Well, then why was it assumed, that sahm would leave their child is a gym day care? Why was that generalized? I wonder if that member intended to make such a generalization.
>>If you're with a child 20-40 hours a week, you're more likely to know what soothes them, why they're crying, etc than a gym provider who may see that child 2-4 hours a week<<
See, exactly, this is why would also they had more influence of the child and more involved with raising that child.
<<there's something wrong apparently with being a SAHM and everything right about being a WOHM.
PumpkinAngel
Very good points.
PumpkinAngel
Well said.
PumpkinAngel
Good point, there is quite a difference between the two, ime.
PumpkinAngel
>>i have to LOL at the remark that it's ok to have kids with a DCP but not ok for a mom to have her child at home<<
*shrug* and I guess we're not suppose to talk about why we chose what we we did, right?
"there's something wrong apparently with being a SAHM and everything right about being a WOHM."
I haven't found that to be the case on this board ( of course excluding CLW). Shrug.
I see the vast vast majority of posters saying "I believe there is no overall ideal/standard and that each family needs to figure out which options work best for their particular circumstances."
>>I see this argument alot the "d/c providers will have influence on your child" argument and I still fail to understand what's wrong with that<<
A certain member wants to know why this debate doesn't end. It's because this has been answered multiple times.
No one ever say it was "wrong". This statement came up because someone "implied" that is what I said ... but, it was never said. This is why it's wrong to jump to conclusions. This is why it's wrong to think you know someone's intentions. (not you, as in you, but generally.)
The rest of you post I already commented on and agreed with. I actaully said that during this debate. As you can see though, those parts are generally edited out of ppls posts when they want to imply what is meant.
Unless featheredhead *is* the argument, "tired" modifies "argument", not "featheredhead".
So which is it? Are you debating the idea or featheredhead?
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