Why does some people think women at home
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Why does some people think women at home
| Sat, 06-07-2003 - 1:02am |
should do it all? I hear this and think why should a woman at home do every thing? Shouldn't it be whatever works? Shouldn't it be whatever floats the boat of the married couple? Confused on this thinking.
If you are home do you do it all? How does your DH or SO feel?
WOH do you do it all or do you split it? Do you do more or less since you WOH?
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Edited 6/16/2003 8:02:09 PM ET by cyndiluwho
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"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
I know for me my dh would much rather I take my daughter to the beach, than sit at home while I clean the house...of course I don't ask him to clean it, I have a cleaning lady. Again, not because I can't or don't want to clean, but because it enables me to do more with our daughter.
I don't understand why you have such a hard time with all this.
Why the h*ll not? Why do you care if someone's husband helps with the housework? Does your statement apply to those of us sahm's who have cleaning ladies? My responsibility is to take care of my children and my house. How I choose to do that is up to me....
Dh will cook all his own meals, pack his own lunch, make his own coffee
Dh will wash, dry, fold, put up all his own clothes
Dh will go to grocery & buy his food
Dh will clean his toilet, sink, shower
Dh will have his own trash can for his trash that he will take out
Dh will wash his own car
Dh will put his dishes in the dishwasher, he will put his dishes away, if he has more dishes than I it will be his job to put the soap in, run it,since he has more to clean
Dh will make up his side of bed, put sheets,blanket,pillow case on his side of bed
Dh will move his chair and vac around, under it. He will use the broom under his part of kitchen table
I'm beginning to think mrslou is on to some thing with this equal thing. Less work for moi
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