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Why does some people think women at home
| Sat, 06-07-2003 - 1:02am |
should do it all? I hear this and think why should a woman at home do every thing? Shouldn't it be whatever works? Shouldn't it be whatever floats the boat of the married couple? Confused on this thinking.
If you are home do you do it all? How does your DH or SO feel?
WOH do you do it all or do you split it? Do you do more or less since you WOH?
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How about if you both spent zero time with the kids? That would be better than one spending more time than the other too by that logic.
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Guess what? I do both, too. Remember? My job is easy and I love it. The days I'm home are much more stressful and hurried. Wow, do you think the reason we could both have such opposing viewpoints has to do with the ages of our kids, our dispositions, our expectations, the number of kids, their personalities, etc.?
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Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
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I disagree... IF ... the decision for one partner not to work for income was a JOINT decision between the partners. If that was the case, and it was understood that one income would be supporting two people, then you (general you) should have no trouble spending some of the money on yourself.
Heck, why would a person *choose* to put oneself in the situation of not bringing in income if that person knows that the income supplied by the other person in the partnership is off limits?
dj
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
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