Why should I support someone else?
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| Sat, 12-30-2006 - 1:24pm |
Let me start by saying that I"m new here so this may have already been discussed, but this has come up in my office several times and I wanted to get some other views of this.
I do payroll for a rather small company so I know most of the workers and their wives (most of the workers are men due to the nature of our business). There are two in particular who's wives SAH. These two are up to their eyeballs in debt. I have bill collectors constantly calling for them. That part is really their business, it is annoying but I enjoy being rude back to the bill collectors, lol.
The part that bothers me is that both wives have been in the office wanting copies of X amount of check stubs so that they can go and get public assistance (I know because they told me that is what it is for)! Why should my tax money go so that these women can SAH? I know that not all families that one parent stays at home are like this, but I know lots that are. Heck, growing up we were always broke because my mother refused to work, but we weren't on any public assistance.
So, why should I pay for a woman to SAH? Why can't she go and get a job to support her family just like anyone else?


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Oh please. I challenge *anyone* to look into my kids closets and tell me they can tell which clothes were purchased from the thrift store/second hand and which were purchased from the mall. There is certainly no way to tell, especially after they have been washed once.
I have two nieces that get hand-me-downs from dd. I recently helped my SIL (the mom of the second niece) unpack some hand-me-downs from niece #1, and was pleased to see many of dd's clothes still perfectly wearable, even after years of use. We aren't poor, but it seems wasteful not to reuse things that have plenty of life left in them.
Carrie
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