WOH and sleeping issues
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WOH and sleeping issues
| Sun, 05-22-2005 - 10:34am |
We were at a dinner party last night at the home of one of dh's coworkers. They have 2 boys, 6 and 4. They have a bunch of sleeping issues (kids 'scared' at night, won't fall asleep in their own bed, won't go to bed without mom or dad cuddling them, etc.) The mom blames herself because since she works all day and misses them so much she tends to cuddle with them late at night and they fall asleep in a pile on the bed all together. She said that if she SAH, they wouldn't have the same issues.
I sah. For us, bed time is a rigid, welcome respite at the end of the day. Dh has no desire to keep them up either, lol.

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That is simply not universally true. How would you be inconvienced by my minimally scheduled child? He plays well with others with minimal supervision. Doesn't throw toys at play dates, wouldn't eat all the food on the buffet line if left unsupervised and is rarely cranky even if he didn't get the required hours of sleep the night before after seeing a fireworks diplay.
Now on the otherhand it seems to me *I* would be inconvienced by your child who seems to require maximum supervision and cannot be trusted to play unsupervised with my child at an event *even though* he is on a strict schedule
See...this is where having a bulldog comes in handy.
PumpkinAngel
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It's when they are super quiet, that needs to be investigated.
PumpkinAngel
What part of it didn't make my child cranky to watch a fireworks show, what part of him not being on a schedule, and what part of crankiness not being a big fat hairy deal anyhow don't you understand?
I hadn't imagined that it was utterly useless to do anything with a child prior to the age where they'd remember it forever. In fact, I'm pretty sure that there's a fair bit of evidence that you really oughtn't keep a child in a box until they're 6 or so so as to avoid upsetting their sleep schedule with a novel experience.
Oh, but that's not important, remembering good times had when you were two when you're three. Experiences can't be important unless you remember them when you're 40.
DS had seen three fireworks shows before his first birthday. He absolutely LOVED crowds and lights.
I always figure the dirtier they are the happier they are and that's what play clothes and the hose (at least in the summer) are for.
The only time I require the kids to be clean and presentable (for what seems like a brief moment in time) is for church, school, and social occasions.
PumpkinAngel
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