? for working moms
Find a Conversation
| Mon, 03-03-2008 - 11:08am |
My son is six months old, and I have been back to work full time for four weeks.
I became upset over the weekend when two people (who are very close to me) made comments such as: "it seems like it would be so much easier to drop your kids off at daycare and work full time than to stay home", and even worse, "it's clearly easier to work and have someone else raise your kids than stay home". Both were stated by mothers who have never been in the position of working full-time with children. I disagree thoroughly with both comments (my life is certainly NOT easier now that I'm back to work!)
So... without stiring up the hornet's nest that is the "mommy war"... I am curious, how can I respond to statements like this? Should I respond, or just let it go? How long does it take to get over hearing hurtful things like this?
Any thoughts are appreciated!

Pages
"Gross" doesn't mean "maximum allowable". It means your income before taxes, pension, etc is taken out.
You said <>
The *maximum* unemployment check you could get is $405 a week. So your current job pays $405 a week BEFORE they take out medical, dental, 401K, life insurance, and daycare (assuming you qualify for the maximum unemployment check)?
Almost 14 years.
*********
Ducky
I wouldn't be doing the basement if I was getting unemployment.
<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
You realize that you have to actively look for a job in order to receive unemployment?
http://www.labor.state.ny.us/ui/claimantinfo/onceyouhaveappliedfaq.shtm#0
Q: Do I have to look for work while collecting unemployment insurance benefits?
A: Yes, to be eligible for benefits you must be available for work and demonstrate that you are seeking employment while claiming benefits by keeping a written record of your job search. Forms to record your efforts are provided in the “Unemployment Insurance Information for Claimants” handbook mailed to you when you apply. You may be asked to show your work efforts when asked to report to the local Division of Employment Services office.
You also realize that it is fully taxable, so really less than $405/week?
PumpkinAngel
Then it's net, not gross.
PumpkinAngel
Okay...then you still have to pay for those things out of your check, making it even less...plus you have to pay taxes as well.
PumpkinAngel
Pages