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| Mon, 03-03-2008 - 11:08am |
My son is six months old, and I have been back to work full time for four weeks.
I became upset over the weekend when two people (who are very close to me) made comments such as: "it seems like it would be so much easier to drop your kids off at daycare and work full time than to stay home", and even worse, "it's clearly easier to work and have someone else raise your kids than stay home". Both were stated by mothers who have never been in the position of working full-time with children. I disagree thoroughly with both comments (my life is certainly NOT easier now that I'm back to work!)
So... without stiring up the hornet's nest that is the "mommy war"... I am curious, how can I respond to statements like this? Should I respond, or just let it go? How long does it take to get over hearing hurtful things like this?
Any thoughts are appreciated!

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<I understand how people get into situations to lose their homes as I do personally know a few people who have. They have all made bad financial decisions tthrough the years that could have been avoided. They all regret that they ruined their credit and
I don't know about everyone's situation but by the time you decide to downsize, your credit has been ruined by not paying bills on time.
Nothing I posted had to do with your dh's raise. I wouldn't know about getting a raise so big like that to go into a different bracket. My dh and my raise's actually help us out and we do get more in our check and not into taxes.
"I don't know about everyone's situation but by the time you decide to downsize, your credit has been ruined by not paying bills on time."
No, that's not generally true.
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True, I do not know everyone who has sold their home to downsize because IME I don't know many families with children who have downsized unless they got themselves in financial trouble and at that point, their credit was ruined.
How on EARTH would you know that???
"When we bought our home, they figured out your mortgage by double your salary."
Dh and I continue to follow this logic.
No, that's not generally true.
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