Is this an age related thing?

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Is this an age related thing?
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Thu, 04-12-2007 - 9:45am

(Totally OT, not SAH/WOH related, so feel free to not respond)


I went out with 5 other women to dinner last night.

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 6:35pm

Why would ppl not have the right to serve certin ppl?

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Registered: 05-14-2006
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 6:49pm

Actually your post makes not sense.

"If somone offers me something I do not ALWAYS excpet the offer just b/c they freely offered it. I decide for myself, if i accept the offer."

No where in my sentence of < did I say anything about you having to accept someone's offer just because they offered. My point was that they should not offer unless they they were willing to follow through. Whether the offer is accepted or not has nothing to do with that.

You are trying to make the point that you would not accpet because it is too much work for them. The point that I am trying to make is if they made the offer then they obvioulsy do not think it is too much work for them, if they thought it was too much work then they should not have made the offer.




Edited 4/19/2007 6:55 pm ET by texigan-again
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Registered: 04-22-2003
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 8:12pm
you asked me to show it to you..."If i actually said that i would like to see it so i can clarify or stand corrected. "
Kerry with Campbell Elizabeth 11.03.06 and Benjamin Brady 12.10.03
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Registered: 11-15-2006
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 9:56am

Refuse to serve people with logical reason, not becasue of skin color or sexuality or anything discriminating.

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 10:19am

It does not back your claim. So i do not need to stand corrected. There is a difference between bad tippers and someone who does not tip. Iam addressing ppl who expect something for nothing, we do not need their busines or want their business, they have to go else wear.

We have customers who cannot pay for their meals we will pay for them and tip the waitress. The wiat staff will also buy measla and such for customers just b/c they want to or b/c they customer has finacial problems.

Iam talking about a attitude a behavior that is NOT allowed service in our place.




Edited 4/20/2007 10:41 am ET by xenozany
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Registered: 11-15-2006
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 10:25am

NOt that it is too much work it is unecessary work, during a busy time and rush.
My post makes perfect sense. IF a waitress asks me is we want seperate checks, i say no, thankyou there is no need and we do not need them.

If someone offers me something i do not need or want i say no, no thankyou.

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Registered: 04-22-2003
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 10:42am
K, for the last time. You said you could bar anyone you wanted to and that you would bar someone for consistently bad tipping. Then when I asked some further questions you said that you never said you'd bar someone for...bad tipping - then you asked me to point it out to you where you might have said it so you could "clarify". I pointed it out and someone else also pointed it out. Then you said you didn't have to clarify. I'm going to chalk this one up as done since either you have an extremely short term memory, or you just enjoy messing with people's heads. I've got better things to do with my time.
Kerry with Campbell Elizabeth 11.03.06 and Benjamin Brady 12.10.03
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Fri, 04-20-2007 - 10:48am
Hey! I tip extra if I see a waiter/waitress having to deal with whiny kids at another table. I don't bring whiny kids into restaurants or allow them to stay there if they get whiny, and I hate having to hear other people's kids whine when I'm out. It must be one of the least pleasant parts of any wait staff's job.
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Registered: 01-15-2006
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 12:44pm
i'm sorry.

 

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 12:54pm

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If they the behavior warrented being bared then yes even great tippers. I never claimed a reason i would bar someone was for not being a good tipper. I said i would bar a party that did not tip the wait staff,

This is exatly what i said.

< make a habit of not tipping we bar you. >

No where does that say what you claim iam saying.

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No that is not even close to what i have said.

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You can do whatever you want but it is incorrect. We bar ppl who expect something for nothing ppl who do not tip at all. Not b/c you are not a very good tipper. There is a major difference between the two.

Also bad tippers who are consistant as in awalways leavin under 15% for great service would get a service charge.




Edited 4/20/2007 1:08 pm ET by xenozany

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