Black Friday

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Black Friday
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Fri, 11-29-2013 - 12:24pm

1. Did you do any shopping yesterday or today?

2. Do you have any leftovers? What is your favorite?

3. Do you have a budget for holiday gifts?

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:37pm

turkeyday wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px">"The deal on the first house fell through and we lost our earnest money"</span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px">My bad, wrong verbage....</span></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:13px">"Xh is about a month behind on spousal support (he's current on cs)</span><span style="font-size:13px"> .</span><span style="font-size:13px">Its enforceable since its court-ordered. however, the fight isn't worth it"</span></p><p><span style="font-size:13px"></span><strong><span style="font-size:13px">Not monthly?</span></strong></p>

My bad...you make up a totally fictional comment and all you can say is...my bad?  How about an apology, a grown up one and not something a high school kid would try?

PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 11-26-2013
Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:37pm

You said wou got a bonus to cove all  Christmas spending.

No, I said my bonus covers all my holiday spending. 

That wasn't the case, you lied. IME, bonuses are always welcome and never a part of the budget. YMMV

I lied about what? 

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Registered: 11-26-2013
Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:39pm

I have never lost earnest money or had a house deal fall through, so I have no idea where that came from. 

Your ex did. You don't remember that? I quoted you.

If that is indeed a quote from me, spousal support is a different animal than CS and it was a monthly agreement. 

Nothing was said about spousal support, only CS. Are you reading my posts and quotes that YOU provided?

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:40pm

<<Well then you might want to go back and edit your post, because clearly your comments show a real lack of understanding of how bonuses can work. 

Really? How so?>>

I explained it in a prior post, I suggest you stop and read the words written.

<<Yeah, I fixed the post.>>

That's it?  You made up something and then you can't even apologize?

<<<<Again, I did not say it was my source of income (CS). Savcal did. >>

Oh please, there are tons of threads where you or one of your names claims that it's another source of income, incorrectly of course...but that is pretty standard.

Don't change the subject, please. Savcal indeed said it.>>

I'm not changing the subject (that is after all your mission, lol)  you said it above, I addressed your comments above, that were quoted.  I suggest you stop and read those comments, that I quoted.  


PumpkinAngel

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Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:44pm

turkeyday wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px">I have never lost earnest money or had a house deal fall through, so I have no idea where that came from.  </span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px">Your ex did. You don't remember that? I quoted you.</span></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:13px">If that is indeed a quote from me, spousal support is a different animal than CS and it was a monthly agreement. </span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px">Nothing was said about spousal support, only CS. Are you reading my posts and quotes that YOU provided?</span></strong></p>
turkeyday wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px">I have never lost earnest money or had a house deal fall through, so I have no idea where that came from.  </span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px">Your ex did. You don't remember that? I quoted you.</span></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:13px">If that is indeed a quote from me, spousal support is a different animal than CS and it was a monthly agreement. </span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px">Nothing was said about spousal support, only CS. Are you reading my posts and quotes that YOU provided?</span></strong></p>

Your quote talked about spousal support!   <<"Xh is about a month behind on spousal support (he's current on cs) .Its enforceable since its court-ordered. however, the fight isn't worth it">>

Do you see those two words? SPOUSAL SUPPORT????  Right there? In the quote?  That you posted? Yeah, so something WAS said about spousal support. 

So why would I say "we lost our earnest money" if I was talking about my ex?????  What part of my ex's dealings are a "we"?  Maybe he lost earnest money - I don't rmember or care if he did.  But that, of course, has nothing to do with "being duped". 

And, of course, all of this is so stupid and silly. I have no idea why the hell you care about what my ex did or didn't do 9+ years ago ... or 9+ minutes ago.  I don't care. Why would you???

I really don't get this overinvolved fascination with other people's lives.  

"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day[9] Daily #459 P1

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:46pm

<<Nothing was said about spousal support, only CS. Are you reading my posts and quotes that YOU provided?>>

Yes there was, in the quote from you.  You mentioned child support in your made up comment and then in your "my bad" comment you mentioned spousal support, two different things.  



PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 09-01-2002
Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:48pm

turkeyday wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px">Now that is earned income, bonuses....you know, actually another source of income, good point there sav.</span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px">Psst...a holiday bonus is once a year, not every month <img src="/forums/sites/all/libraries/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-laughing.gif" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" border="0" /></span></strong></p>

Good one!  Love it!

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Registered: 09-01-2002
Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:50pm

turkeyday wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px">I think you are assuming that the Christmas bonuses are large, that may not be the case.</span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:x-small"><span>Large as how much? We get a percentage of our salary and a minimum amount for people who don't make that much.</span></span></strong></p>

Niiiice!  Enjoy.

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Registered: 09-01-2002
Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:56pm

turkeyday wrote:
<p>Not missing the point. I KNOW that you get penalized if you withdraw from a Christmas account earlier than allowed which would be different from a Savings account that you would not. </p><p>Again, do you know someone who HAS gotten penalized? </p><p>It really makes no sense saying I did not know if they existed as I knew more about them then other posters and you can go back to the beginning and re-read the thread. </p>

I'm learning a lot about Christmas club accounts and enjoying this thread because of your posts.  I'm going to run this idea by dh but there are a lot of non-Christians on staff so that may be a factor, lol!  I don't know.  Maybe that's why some employers don't offer them, the whole politically correct thang. Smile

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Registered: 11-26-2013
Mon, 12-02-2013 - 10:57pm

Can't just admit that you said that cs was a source of income? Lololol

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