End of School Year Fluff

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End of School Year Fluff
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Tue, 06-11-2013 - 10:12am

1.  Do your kids go to school on the last day of school?

2.  Do you throw (or let them throw) an end of year party for their friends?

3.  How many *graduation ceremonies* will/have your children experienced in their life time?

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Registered: 03-27-2013
Tue, 06-11-2013 - 1:29pm

"My dd will be 16 next year and I would rather do a vacation of her choice then have to spend close to $10,000 for a party at a hall." Seriously?! My dd got to go bowling for her 16th.

Laughing

I just had a few friends over for mine, mostly because I also have a summer bday and it was harder back then to stay in touch during the summer. Also many people go away during the summer. 

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Registered: 03-27-2013
Tue, 06-11-2013 - 1:30pm

I think that couples should get a home together.... I've heard quite a few stories (just shy of) regret, b/c they missed out on that stage of their lives together.

Do you mean before marriage?

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Registered: 03-27-2013
Tue, 06-11-2013 - 1:31pm

<<It IS a lot IMO. Sweet 16's are a big hoopla event by me. The dress, the friends, the candle ceremonies, etc, etc. I don't think my dd would want a party at home as not sure what the kids would do as we don't have pool and she has a summer bday. >>

Friends of mine combined their two dd's 16's and rented a pool, shared expenses and such.

Nice Laughing

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Tue, 06-11-2013 - 1:32pm

"Sweet 16's are a big hoopla event by me. The dress, the friends, the candle ceremonies, etc, etc." It must be regional... I can't even imagine.

As I was saying to Lauren, it might be but many of those (WAY over the top parties) on MTV were all over the nation so it seems they do have them outside of my area.

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Tue, 06-11-2013 - 1:49pm

springfever2013 wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">"Sweet 16's are a big hoopla event by me. The dress, the friends, the candle ceremonies, etc, etc." It must be regional... I can't even imagine.</span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">As I was saying to Lauren, it might be but many of those (WAY over the top parties) on MTV were all over the nation so it seems they do have them outside of my area.</span></strong></p>

If MTV was featuring those parties, it doesn't mean it was common for everyone in that area to have one though.  They were having an over the top party to get on MTV or likely because they were on MTV.  Example--Life magazine came to my high school in 1985 for prom (any like 10 other schools across the nation).  That year couples were doing much bigger/varied ativities than usual to get featured in the magazine.

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Registered: 02-24-2010
Tue, 06-11-2013 - 1:56pm

1. Yes they go to school, like any other day.

2.  No I don't throw a party every year. If they ask to have some friends over, I'd consider it--just depends on the circumstances, but I wouldn't shut it down, just because or have it every year just because we did it in the past.  Dd1 had a couple girls spend the night the last 2 years on the last day of school.

On Sweet 16's--no one has them here, maybe the rich people do.  I treated it like any other birthday-I've let my kids have a party every year.  For dd1 16's party I took her &5-6 girls to a play at our performing arts center & then they spent the night.  So that might have cost about $200ish.  I know in LI it is common to have to have a big party & keep up witht he Jones' on the cost.

3. K, 5th, 8th & hs.

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Tue, 06-11-2013 - 1:59pm

If MTV was featuring those parties, it doesn't mean it was common for everyone in that area to have one though.  They were having an over the top party to get on MTV or likely because they were on MTV. 

No, they didn't have the parties to GET on MTV. They would have had them anyway. Catered affairs for Sweet 16's (as well as christenings, communions, confirmations, bar and bat mitzvah's, quincenaros, graduations, etc.) is not something new. I even went to a bunch of Sweet 16's in catered halls, 25 + years ago. They might be more popular in one area than another but the ones on TV were not limited to one area of the country. 

Example--Life magazine came to my high school in 1985 for prom (any like 10 other schools across the nation).  That year couples were doing much bigger/varied ativities than usual to get featured in the magazine.

That sounds really cool Laughing

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Registered: 03-27-2013
Tue, 06-11-2013 - 2:01pm

I know in LI it is common to have to have a big party & keep up witht he Jones' on the cost.

Big parties are not justed limited to LI. That might be your experience but I know that they ARE done around the country.

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Tue, 06-11-2013 - 2:08pm

MTV may have featured elaborate Sweet 16s from all over, but I can tell you that it is not common here. I'm sure it happens some - there are rich fruitcakes everywhere - but it is definitely not happening enough for it to be "the norm" or even close.

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Registered: 03-27-2013
Tue, 06-11-2013 - 2:10pm

MTV may have featured elaborate Sweet 16s from all over, but I can tell you that it is not common here. I'm sure it happens some - there are rich fruitcakes everywhere - but it is definitely not happening enough for it to be "the norm" or even close.

Oh, I get that it is not as common in certain places but I am sure they have them everywhere, not just in certain regions. 

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