We don't hide money. I do the bills but my dh knows the budget and where the money goes and really is just concerned if everything goes to where it should-lol!! We both get "spending" money per week (not a lot) so we don't have to "ask" for money.
ITA with you. I have things at work I spend money on, birthday breakfasts, showers, retirement parties and gifts, etc. I don't think it is "hiding" that I don't tell him exactly how much I have spent.
"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day Daily #459 P1
I know this was not to me but no, I don't consider that hiding. I would consider hiding hoarding away money in a separate account that the person did not know about.
I do all the book work, and finances at home and work so if dh is hiding money from me...he has a secret life...lol