iVillage Poll: Over 70 Percent of Working Moms Say They Have Guilt

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Registered: 02-21-2003
iVillage Poll: Over 70 Percent of Working Moms Say They Have Guilt
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Thu, 02-03-2011 - 10:32am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2000

I think that's just plain stupid.


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007

I would guess a poll of sahms would result in the same % of guilt feelers.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2000

Good point.


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-24-2009

That's too bad. However, I bet that plenty of SAHMs feel guilt too. It seems to be an affliction of many mothers, working or not.

I believe that everyone must rejoice in his destiny, in the fact that he has lived at all and achieved a destiny. Destiny is the only sure asset. – Jørgen-Frantz Jacobs
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2000

I was about to say the same thing!

However, I think people don't necessarily feel guilty - guilt means that you feel you have done something wrong.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2000

Yes!


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-24-2009

Very good point. Feeling some regret or doubt is not the same as actual guilt. maybe the real problem is that people fail to make this distinction.

I believe that everyone must rejoice in his destiny, in the fact that he has lived at all and achieved a destiny. Destiny is the only sure asset. – Jørgen-Frantz Jacobs
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Registered: 10-06-2010
I'm going to repeat what I say pretty much every time this topic comes up.

I don't feel guilt over WOH. In order to feel guilt, there must be something I've done wrong. And WOH isn't wrong.

I sometimes feel disappointed - that I'm not home playhing with my kids, or that I missed a recital, or that I spent a good part of the last 3 snow days working instead of enjoying the time off with my kids. But guilt? Nope.

My kids do no suffer signficant negative impacts because I WOH. In fact, they enjoy significant postives. So, WOH isn't wrong, therefore, nothing to feel guilty for.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2009
thankyou for pointing that out, guilt is not something that i allow in my life.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2005

I'm one of the 70% that said they feel guilt about working.





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