Marriage equality argument

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Marriage equality argument
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Tue, 03-26-2013 - 8:21pm

So the sole argument against marriage equality is that marriage is for procreation? Where exactly does that leave menopausal women? Or men with ED? Or the infertile? 

I can not believe we are STILL having this discussion in 2013. I have noticed that it is generational though--many of boomers I know are against it. Gen Xers like myself and younger are generally in favor...

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Sat, 03-30-2013 - 7:20pm

<How could you or anyone be a sahp without the benefits of the working spouse?>

Wow - Good point. Jams - Care to comment on your ss or pension benefits if your husband, God forbid, dies berfore you do?

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Sun, 03-31-2013 - 5:10am
These subsidies weren't even around in my grandparent's generation and before her, She didn't die a poor woman. Right of survivorship and asset allocation should be as equal to me as it is to anybody else, gay or single person alike! Nice try tho, Are you only banking on ss and pension or are you more diversified than that chestnut?

 

 

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Sun, 03-31-2013 - 5:12am

pumpkinangel wrote:
<p><blockquote class="quote-msg quote-nest-1 odd"><div class="quote-author"><em class="placeholder">jamblessedthree</em> wrote:</div>&lt;p&gt;What issues do you have bringing family into debate?  I have no shame taking MIL to debate here, Amazingly her ways are sometimes applicable here, Lol.  Why do some family snitches get a pass but others don't?  The posts must be convenientally missed I guess, I really don't know but it's often why I don't debate some here b/c you're not impartial debaters.  Having said that, I'm sorry if you don't like that some old debates haven't been forgotten either, Mothers and all.  If you don't want to drag that in again then don't, Just don't shoot the one sided reminders then too.   Thanks, Ta ta. &lt;/p&gt;</blockquote></p><p>The only issus about family members that I'm bringing up is the double standard of being called out for talking about family members in a debate while supporting others for doing the same and of course doing the same yourself, again. If you don't want the double standards to be called out, then stop.  It's the one sided reminders and the lack impartial debating double standard that I'm calling out here, fyi...in case that point was missed, again.  </p><p>I have no issues with old debates being remembered, if they are remembered in reality and facts and not through some magical telescope where one sees only fairy tales and where being different is bad.  But you might want to note, I didn't drag it in...yet another double standard. </p>

This post is nonsense, Laughing out loud!  The only double standard is on you. 

 

 

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Registered: 01-08-2009
Sun, 03-31-2013 - 8:06am
The right of survivorship and joint tenancy have been around for centuries for married people, Jambles. It's not new. Glad you agree that gay couples should be able to benefit. Now, who are these single people going to inherit from?
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Registered: 05-13-2009
Sun, 03-31-2013 - 9:12am

Those benefits were certainly around for my grandparents, who lived into their 90s, but my great grandparents, farmers all on both sides, died in the 40s and 50s, which was fairly typical. If the parent lived a long life, they depended on their, usually many, children to take care of them.

Did you know that 23% of current married seniors and 46% of unmarried seniors rely on ss a their sole source of income? I'm not ready to throw them under the bus by squeezing their benefits. Are you, Jams?

I do know my financial position is much better than yours because I am eligible for ss by my own earnings, I have a small pension, and my own 401K savings. I plan to retire in 5 years, and even if my husband left, I have already reached my retirement savings goals that would keep me comfortable well into my 90s.

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Sun, 03-31-2013 - 9:31am

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How could you or anyone be a sahp without the benefits of the working spouse?

YES! Yes. And without those benefits, gay parents have more difficulty staying at home with their children. 

If you feel that SAH is best, then why reserve it as an option only for some children?

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Sun, 03-31-2013 - 10:19am
"Right of survivorship and asset allocation should be as equal to me as it is to anybody else, gay or single person alike!" -------------- How would you make it equal?
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Sun, 03-31-2013 - 1:25pm

A chaplain at the University of Sussex makes the case for a homosexual Jesus in the Guardian.

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Jesus was a Hebrew rabbi. Unusually, he was unmarried. The idea that he had a romantic relationship with Mary Magdalene is the stuff of fiction, based on no biblical evidence. The evidence, on the other hand, that he may have been what we today call gay is very strong. But even gay rights campaigners in the church have been reluctant to suggest it. A significant exception was Hugh Montefiore, bishop of Birmingham and a convert from a prominent Jewish family. He dared to suggest that possibility and was met with disdain, as though he were simply out to shock.

After much reflection and with certainly no wish to shock, I felt I was left with no option but to suggest, for the first time in half a century of my Anglican priesthood, that Jesus may well have been homosexual. Had he been devoid of sexuality, he would not have been truly human. To believe that would be heretical.

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Sun, 03-31-2013 - 1:48pm
Thardy?? I could really use that spill at the grocery store pic right about now.... Happy Easter!

 

 

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Sun, 03-31-2013 - 1:51pm

jamblessedthree wrote:
These subsidies weren't even around in my grandparent's generation and before her, She didn't die a poor woman. Right of survivorship and asset allocation should be as equal to me as it is to anybody else, gay or single person alike! Nice try tho, Are you only banking on ss and pension or are you more diversified than that chestnut?

But the point is that it's not equal at the moment.

PumpkinAngel

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