Let's talk about gifts.
there really are no little things from non-family or friends because i don't WOH, neighbors and i bake for one another.
We do 2 grab bags at work. Only one I participated in one. I got chocolates with alcohol in them and a variety of hot chocolate. We collect money for our boss and get her gifts. I also participated in a grab bag with my friends. I got a bottle of wine.
oh no, perfume, LOL.
DH is in banking, his vendors are always generous.
We got lots of gifts from vendors and brokers and such--mostly sweets, and I re-gifted quite a bit of it. If I took home everything I was given, I'd weigh 400 lbs. So some of it went to DD's daycare, some to DS's teacher, some went to clients, some went to friends/family.
the first year DD joined the club she's in i had her get the leader a little something on her own, this leader is also her horseback trainer.