Parenting Poll (m)

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Parenting Poll (m)
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Mon, 05-19-2003 - 3:57pm
1. At what age did your child(ren) try solid foods? At what age were they eating most types of solids?

2. Did/do you practice attachment parenting or any other parenting philosophy with a formal name?

3. At what age did or would you (and your spouse, if applicable) leave your child(ren) overnight?

4. Do/did your children get an allowance? Beginning at what age, and how much?

5. How old were/will your children be when you allow them to play in their rooms or elsewhere in your house/yard for short periods unsupervised?

6. At what age did your children sleep through the night regularly?


There is no "overall point" to this, I'm just curious.

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Tue, 05-27-2003 - 1:55pm
You are right about that one- whatever issue is timely for you is the 'big one' I remember when such milestones were oh so important. I was totally crushed when the parents as teachers evaluation told me my dd was 2nd percentile for gross motor at age 3. Ds not interested in potty training at 2 1/2 had me in a fit of concern. Now I look back on those things and laugh at how I was so obsessed. NOw I wrestle with finding shorts that cover dd's rear end and no writing there, getting the right IEP for my son's reading disability, and comforting them, and saying the right things over dd's loss for student council elections and Ds's 4th place finish at a chess tourney (trophies go to 1-3rd place and his best friend, a chess prodigy has an entire trophy case-ds's best finish has been 4th) Were the previous concerns more trivial-well not for me while I was going through them-but wish things were still as simple!
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Tue, 05-27-2003 - 8:54am
LOL. No, I know the boys are well within the standard deviation, I was just curious the day I started this poll.

And also, when your kids are so little, like mine, milestones and issues seem so huge. I was just hoping that some moms of older kids could help me put my issues into perspective.

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Mon, 05-26-2003 - 3:40pm
1. At what age did your child(ren) try solid foods? At what age were they eating most types of solids?

--4 months (rice cereal)

--12 months (in baby food form, of course)

2. Did/do you practice attachment parenting or any other parenting philosophy with a formal name?

--Attachment parenting, co-sleeping, baby-wearing. Loved it.

3. At what age did or would you (and your spouse, if applicable) leave your child(ren) overnight?

--Did leave one at 6months--would never again.

--Would leave one (with a very familiar family member) at 2years.

4. Do/did your children get an allowance? Beginning at what age, and how much?

--nope, they will get one when they start school (4-5yrs)

--DD gets stickers for doing certain chores. 10 sticker=prize

5. How old were/will your children be when you allow them to play in their rooms or elsewhere in your house/yard for short periods unsupervised?

--Bedrooms-1yr if they're by themselves, 3 with friends (short period is 20min)

--Yard-3 years if yard has privacy fence and locking gate, 6-7yr if not

6. At what age did your children sleep through the night regularly?

--6months

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Mon, 05-26-2003 - 12:07am
That is pretty weird, huh? The personal weird factor in John's birth date also involves his birth time (2:37p, Central European Standard Time). he was born at Nurnberg Army Hospital, so the time on his birth cert is listed in military time, 1437--that particular numeric code is one with which my ex used to sign his love notes to me. 143 for I love you. 7, he claimed, stood for "honest" and I was tactless enough to point out that "honest" has 6 letters, not 7. But it was our code and the response was always 23 (me too). So John was born at I love you, honest, on the me too-th of September ;)

sigh...didn't keep us together...owing in no small part to the fact that I was *hardly* the only "love" on whom that code was bestowed, but it's still kinda sweet in retrospect.

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Sun, 05-25-2003 - 11:01pm
omg, my dd, jaime was born sept 23, 1983!!! now thats wild!
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Sun, 05-25-2003 - 11:00pm
Solid foods. Hmm. Are you trying to figure out if your boys are normal?

I don't know. We have 4 and they all started rice cereal w/in the first 3 months. By 6 mos they were eating everyting I spooned into their mouths. By one year they all categorically refused to eat anyting I offered them. This trend continued until they were about 13. Somehow, they survived and even grew to all average the 65th percentile on the ped's growth chart. They must have been surviving on school food and dirt.

Attachment parenting? There was no such thing with my first and I just continued with what worked when we had our other 3.

When did we leave them overnight? We haven't.

Do they get an allowance? Yes. They all started at age 5. They have to pick up after themselves, clean their rooms and make their beds. We have our teens do the dishes, clean their baths, and do their own laundry because they have to learn how to do such things irl. We do have a cleaning service so their tasks aren't too harsh.

Unsupervised play? Well, when they were 3-4 they were allowed to be unsupervised in their rooms. Now 5 y/o plays unsupervised in all parts of the house and yard except near the pool. Obviously, so do our teens....

Sleep through the night? 6 to 9 months with our 4. As an added bonus, once they were potty trained none of my 4 have ever wet the bed. They were all 3 when they were potty trained which may have made the difference.

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Sun, 05-25-2003 - 8:16pm
John was born Sept 23, 1982.
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Sun, 05-25-2003 - 7:55pm
when is john's birthday? my ds1 was born 7/13/82.
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Sun, 05-25-2003 - 4:15pm
I'm a horrible, horrible person *and* I let my son's stepmom have a voice in issues that involved her and his dad paying for things over and above support. Don't I suck? ;)
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Sun, 05-25-2003 - 9:08am
You mean you didn't keep track of first milestones in a baby scrapebook? Shame, shame on you. :-)

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