Super Sunday

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Registered: 03-27-2013
Super Sunday
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Sun, 04-14-2013 - 1:03pm

1. What's for dinner?

2. When invited to BBQ's in the summer, what signature dish do you usually bring?

3. Where did your parents meet?

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Registered: 03-27-2013
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 7:31pm

So you did nothing, is what you are saying. Did anything escalate from the other incident that you found the need to continue to monitor the person and their family, enough that the PD would contact you years later?

Seems you were afraid to handle it head on IRL as you would have to deal with a "real" person, not someone behind a computer. 

Tells me A LOT about you.

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 7:22pm

springfever2013 wrote:
When the pictures came in, we assessed the threat and dealt with it appropriately. When the other incident occurred, we assessed the threat and dealt with it appropriately....... But no police for an actual threat. Gotcha.

You don't think there is a difference between teenagers and adults?  At least with teenagers you can write it off as just not thinking but an adult...that is much more serious and of course the situations are totally different.  At least imo.

PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 7:17pm

<<The point is a good friend would tell you when it is enough. They don't have to do it here and wouldn't expect or want them to do that. It is obvious no one finds a problem with your posts and find it funny to try and humiliate anothea woman who does not put up personal ino on them. Just because someone tells it like it is and is not afraid to, to lose friends, it does not mean they are a horrible person. I've never come on here preaching about doing the right thing and being so involved in helping others. That is called a hypocrite.>>

For someone who claims that this hasn't bothered them, you certainly keep talking about it.  I see that you didn't address your own double standard and hypocrisy, why is that?

PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 01-08-2009
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 7:03pm
Honestly, it was a couple of teenaged girls who crossed a line. We didn't think it was worth ruining their lives over what turned out to be an uncharacteristic lapse in judgement. Had it escalated after the original incidents, we would have dealt with it differently. But we didn't need to. And both young ladies involved have matured, are in college, and doing well. Just ran into one of their moms at the gym this week. I think we made the right call.
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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 6:56pm
When the pictures came in, we assessed the threat and dealt with it appropriately. When the other incident occurred, we assessed the threat and dealt with it appropriately....... But no police for an actual threat. Gotcha.
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Registered: 01-08-2009
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 6:53pm
When the pictures came in, we assessed the threat and dealt with it appropriately. When the other incident occurred, we assessed the threat and dealt with it appropriately.
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Registered: 03-27-2013
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 6:43pm
Why not call the police when it was about your son's livelihood? He could have went to jail if the pictures were found, correct? So you only get worried when there is NO threat made but when there is an actual problem, you basically blow it off. Ummm...ok. Maybe because there is an actual person in front of you and not behind a computer?
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Registered: 01-08-2009
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 6:38pm
I did do something about it. I just didn't go to the police.
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Registered: 03-27-2013
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 6:32pm

Why didn't I do anything about what?.....

The girls sexting your son. Why wouldn't you go to their parents or get a detective on them or their parents or maybe their relatives? They didn't worry you that your child could go to jail?

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Registered: 01-08-2009
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 6:32pm

springfever2013 wrote:
<blockquote><div style="font-weight:bold"><em>springfever2013</em> wrote:</div><span>&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight:bold"&gt;&lt;em&gt;thardy2001&lt;/em&gt; wrote:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;blockquote class="quote-msg quote-nest-1 odd"&amp;gt;&amp;lt;div class="quote-author"&amp;gt;&amp;lt;em class="placeholder"&amp;gt;bordwithyou&amp;lt;/em&amp;gt; wrote:&amp;lt;/div&amp;gt;  Well, that's why I said you neither seem to want to discuss issues or be friends, two reasons why people would come to a debate board.  Defending Twinkies Pie over Manwich is not "debating."  And you never seem to join threads where real issues are being debated.  The only reason I can think of for you being here is to try to dig up dirt and point out people's weaknesses.  Back in the old days, we used to discuss ideas, and point out flaws in people's arguments about real issues.  The board was enjoyable then, both because I learned things from other people, and I got to know them as people.&amp;amp;lt;/p&amp;amp;gt;&amp;lt;/blockquote&amp;gt;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;That's not true at all.  The difference between today's board and old days was the much greater # of people.  It was fun, and it wasn't the How can We Bash Spring Today Board.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Even today, you never post to Spring unless it is to attack her personally.  Spring, the person.  You never post to me unless it's to be snarky.  But I'm glad several days later, you finally spoke out against RG's posts.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;p style="text-align:left"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="text-align:left"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why do you think the board has so few people?  They left because it just isn't fun anymore.  Part of it's structural.   Part of it's personal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;and why ditht he board get so dead when I was gone but suddenly, everyone came out of the woodwork. Why would that be? I didnt make anyone leave or return. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</span></blockquote><p style="text-align:left"></p><p><span>Soap Operas are fun.  Good ones get high ratings. ,........</span></p><p><span>So basically no one has anything going on if I am not around? </span></p>

Ah,Spring.  You speak as if this is the only board on the whole big wide Interwebz.....

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