Super Sunday

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Super Sunday
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Sun, 04-14-2013 - 1:03pm

1. What's for dinner?

2. When invited to BBQ's in the summer, what signature dish do you usually bring?

3. Where did your parents meet?

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Registered: 10-23-2001
Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:49pm
Yes Melissa, I saw that! Beautiful boy, Terrible tragedy! What's wrong with people?

 


 


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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:48pm

jamblessedthree wrote:
Lol, Maybe it does.  But managers also delegate and know how to work WITH people, helps them get their own work done y'know.  Must be nice to have the time during the day to defend one's position on a message board.    </p>

Yeah, cause what i said was that I never delegate, I don't ever work with people, I don't let others get their own work done ... yeah yeah yeah ...

"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day[9] Daily #459 P1

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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:47pm

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springfever2013 wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">I'm a self-professed control freak.  I don't often feel a need to control people.  But I do have a need to control THINGS.  And that isn't a bad thing - the reason I'm in the job I am and have the authority and responsibility I do is because of my project management skills and my ability to control situations ... but again, not people.  </span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">I guess if that what makes you sleep at night lol</span></strong></p>

Lol, Maybe it does.  But managers also delegate and know how to work WITH people, helps them get their own work done y'know.  Must be nice to have the time during the day to defend one's position on a message board.    >>

Savcal....you forgot posting during the day!  How could you forget that one!  Again with the passive aggressive comments jambles, lol.

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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:46pm

thardy2001 wrote:
You said you "hired" someone.  And that is crossing the abyss, Bord.  <em>That</em> is scary.  </p>

To protect one's children? Nope. The fact that there was a potential threat to her children is what is scary.

"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day[9] Daily #459 P1

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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:45pm

jamblessedthree wrote:
You don't think controlling things inadvertently affects people?

Affects people? Sure. Negatively? Not always.  Things can't be left to go all willy nilly.  Especially in my field, where federal regulations abound. And non-compliance with them can land people in jail.

"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day[9] Daily #459 P1

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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:41pm
Do remember that anything taken to this board is subject for debate. You've forgotten that I guess.

 


 


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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:40pm

reginageorge2005 wrote:
<p><blockquote class="quote-msg quote-nest-1 odd"><div class="quote-author"><em class="placeholder">thardy2001</em> wrote:</div>&lt;p&gt;&lt;blockquote class="quote-msg quote-nest-1 odd"&gt;&lt;div class="quote-author"&gt;&lt;em class="placeholder"&gt;savcal2011&lt;/em&gt; wrote:&lt;/div&gt;&amp;lt;The thing is though, PKA/Bord could easily tell Regina that they don't agree with her OFF THIS BOARD.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And that's why the Banshees are just one-dimensional caricatures.&lt;/p&gt;</blockquote></p><p>If off-board conversation is good enough for the three of you, why isn't it good enough for the rest of us? Spring would like nothing more than to see my hand slapped publically, but claims she would never humilate Jam by slapping her hand. That's a ridiculous double standard...</p>

You misread.  If Savcal is explaining that Bord and others only speak honestly off this board, then they are not speaking honestly here.  They're not stating their true opinions.  They post only the positive here, but honest genuine opinions elsewhere. 

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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:40pm

reginageorge2005 wrote:
<p><blockquote class="quote-msg quote-nest-1 odd"><div class="quote-author"><em class="placeholder">thardy2001</em> wrote:</div>&lt;p&gt;&lt;blockquote class="quote-msg quote-nest-1 odd"&gt;&lt;div class="quote-author"&gt;&lt;em class="placeholder"&gt;savcal2011&lt;/em&gt; wrote:&lt;/div&gt;&amp;lt;The thing is though, PKA/Bord could easily tell Regina that they don't agree with her OFF THIS BOARD.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And that's why the Banshees are just one-dimensional caricatures.&lt;/p&gt;</blockquote></p><p>If off-board conversation is good enough for the three of you, why isn't it good enough for the rest of us? Spring would like nothing more than to see my hand slapped publically, but claims she would never humilate Jam by slapping her hand. That's a ridiculous double standard...</p>

You misread.  If Savcal is explaining that Bord and others only speak honestly off this board, then they are not speaking honestly here.  They're not stating their true opinions.  They post only the positive here, but honest genuine opinions elsewhere. 

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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:39pm

springfever2013 wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">Spring, do you not see that ridiculing people on public message boards is your entire stock in trade?  That's what you DO.  You don't seem interested in being "friends" with anyone here, and you don't seem interested in discussing issues.  You operate by picking out something in their answers to your seemingly innocent questions and using it as bait, or as the advance of a new attack, or as a way of showing a weakness that you think they have so you can claim superiority.   Hence, the endless chatter about Sav's patio and nonsense along those lines.</span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">Last I remember, this was a DEBATE board, not match.com or friends.com (if they have that for people who can't find friends IRL)</span></strong></p>

Then debate the issues please and leave feelings out of the debate, ie...so sad :(  I'm sorry :(  lollolololol.

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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 5:38pm

springfever2013 wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">I'm a self-professed control freak.  I don't often feel a need to control people.  But I do have a need to control THINGS.  And that isn't a bad thing - the reason I'm in the job I am and have the authority and responsibility I do is because of my project management skills and my ability to control situations ... but again, not people.  </span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">I guess if that what makes you sleep at night lol</span></strong></p>

Lol, Maybe it does.  But managers also delegate and know how to work WITH people, helps them get their own work done y'know.  Must be nice to have the time during the day to defend one's position on a message board.    

 


 


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