Teaching tolerance to our kids

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Registered: 06-16-2010
Teaching tolerance to our kids
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Mon, 12-27-2010 - 4:06pm

The discussion in the other thread about gay marriage (OK, it wasn’t so much a discussion as an attack on granitestategal, plus the last time I checked it had devolved into mumbling and maniacal laughter...time to move on!) got me to thinking about this new generation of kids and how things have changed for them. Technology has exploded, and kids are more connected than ever before. They’re also disconnected in a whole new way, but this thread isn’t about that. I’d like to know what we are teaching our kids as far as tolerance for other religions, races and lifestyles.

My parents were brought up by parents who were extremely prejudiced against non-Catholics and non-whites. My great-grandparents must not have passed along the lessons they’d learned as immigrants themselves. The town we lived in was predominantly white and Catholic, and up until high school I didn’t know anyone who was black, Jewish, Hispanic, or gay*. When I moved away from home, I was blown away by how different people outside my little world really were, and fascinated by it. I was, and am, determined to raise my kids to respect and appreciate the differences of others and to understand that deep down we really aren’t that different.

A few years ago when DS was 4, we ran into the husband of a co-worker at a music festival. My co-worker is also male. I probably went overboard in my introduction, but I wanted to get the point across that it’s perfectly OK for some families to consist of 2 dads or 2 moms, or one parent, or parents of different races/religions.

Kevali


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Registered: 03-25-2010
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 2:30pm
So you agree that what this adult person did was wrong when they created a fake facebook account and then friended other minor children?

You agree that children shouldn't have facebook accounts underage?

Actually it is very simple....don't break the rules of facebook.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2010
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 2:30pm

Nope, they still do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2010
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 2:30pm
Um no, that is not how the post read. Please read the post, it should be clear.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2010
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 2:31pm
....and not reading posts!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2010
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 2:33pm

The important things are underage drinking (and driving), smoking and drugs, IMO.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2010
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 2:34pm

THIS is what I agreed with:

ITA. My involvement is ALL about my children and if other children, that I know are being harmed.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2010
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 2:35pm

No need. Seems you have nothing to prove. lol!! :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 2:39pm

Aah, moral relativism.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2010
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 2:52pm

Yes, because posting on fb what they are eating, etc. is SO MORE IMPORTANT than underage drinking and driving, doing drugs and having sex at young ages.

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Registered: 04-22-2005
Sat, 01-01-2011 - 3:02pm

Apparently, as long as doing something illegal isn't AS BAD as doing something else, then it's okay to do it. :smileywink:





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