Teaching tolerance to our kids
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| Mon, 12-27-2010 - 4:06pm |
The discussion in the other thread about gay marriage (OK, it wasn’t so much a discussion as an attack on granitestategal, plus the last time I checked it had devolved into mumbling and maniacal laughter...time to move on!) got me to thinking about this new generation of kids and how things have changed for them. Technology has exploded, and kids are more connected than ever before. They’re also disconnected in a whole new way, but this thread isn’t about that. I’d like to know what we are teaching our kids as far as tolerance for other religions, races and lifestyles.
My parents were brought up by parents who were extremely prejudiced against non-Catholics and non-whites. My great-grandparents must not have passed along the lessons they’d learned as immigrants themselves. The town we lived in was predominantly white and Catholic, and up until high school I didn’t know anyone who was black, Jewish, Hispanic, or gay*. When I moved away from home, I was blown away by how different people outside my little world really were, and fascinated by it. I was, and am, determined to raise my kids to respect and appreciate the differences of others and to understand that deep down we really aren’t that different.
A few years ago when DS was 4, we ran into the husband of a co-worker at a music festival. My co-worker is also male. I probably went overboard in my introduction, but I wanted to get the point across that it’s perfectly OK for some families to consist of 2 dads or 2 moms, or one parent, or parents of different races/religions.


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Again, she ONLY sees them on my wall IF she is around when I am on fb. That is not very often and she usually is not interested in my fb.
"So you don't think teaching your children what pictures are put up on facebook by kids under 21 is educating them?
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No HOW and WHY?
I do not have to show my kids pictures of ppl under 21on FB
Oh, ok. I leave mine "closed" but it is up there all the time. If my dh goes on the computer, he automatically just changes to his account. Sometimes he will scroll down and look at my wall but there is nothing up there that he shouldn't see. I do the same with his but most of our posts on our walls are the same as we have a lot of the same friends.
Yes, that is EXACTLY what I would tell my children.
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